[Armada]

Hey everyone, I'm knew to this forums and Mcmaster. I will be starting in the fall for a 2 year professional degree (Physician Assistant) and have completed undergrad at UofT Scarborough.

I havn't lived away from home before and will be living with 4 random individuals at West Village Suites.

So far I havn't found any good sources or guides on living with other housemates and was wondering if you guys could give some feedback and links to sources that discuss what to expect and such?

I'm excited but also nervous of not knowing what to expect

[inthemaking]

If possible, meet up with them prior to moving in for coffee/lunch/dinner/drinks so you can get to know them a bit beforehand.

Hopefully you guys will click and get along well but you may not end up being best friends with them (which is fine), just be respectful of their space/privacy and clean up after yourself and it should work out.

[Armada]

Originally Posted by inthemaking

If possible, meet up with them prior to moving in for coffee/lunch/dinner/drinks so you can get to know them a bit beforehand.

Hopefully you guys will click and get along well but you may not end up being best friends with them (which is fine), just be respectful of their space/privacy and clean up after yourself and it should work out.

Yeah that's what I plan on doing. Would it seem odd to have like a discussion in the beginning and to agree on some house rules and understandings?

All info is appreciated so thanks!

[inthemaking]

Originally Posted by Armada

Yeah that's what I plan on doing. Would it seem odd to have like a discussion in the beginning and to agree on some house rules and understandings?

All info is appreciated so thanks!

Not at all, that's pretty much standard when you move in with people, especially ones you don't know. Even when I moved off campus with friends in 2nd year, we typed out a house agreement (rules on guests, parties, chores etc).

[SydWitches]

tyrant why do you always randomly come into conversations that have nothing to do with you, and who you helping out you fake internet hero.

just remember nice guys finish last.

[tyrant]

Originally Posted by SydWitches

tyrant why do you always randomly come into conversations that have nothing to do with you, and who you helping out you fake internet hero.

just remember nice guys finish last.

yeah, all over your face.

[Armada]

please guys lets keep it on topic..

[toosh]

Sorry for going off track there but follow the link below and download the pdf(Student Success Guide - Off-Campus Resource Centre)...pg 10 gives some tips on roommates...

What has always worked for me is being open and frank while respecting others. Basically just being mature. Communicate and discuss things that come up to avoid any awkwardness. People respect you that way.

All the best!

[Johnny162]

Definitely have a serious conversation with everyone at the beginning to set up the house rules. I found that the biggest issue was chores. keeping on top of people to get chores done can be a hassle, so i recommend creating a chore list (we made a chore wheel) and posting it in a visible spot. That way everyone can tell who has dropped the ball in a certain area and it doesnt have to be the same person going after the slackers (if any) all the time. Also be respectful of noise. My room is right off the kitchen so of course noise can be an issue at times, but once i discussed with everyone my habits/preferences, they were pretty respectful. just keep in mind that it is a 'give and take' situation and that there will always be issues, big or small, but try not to get stressed out over the little things and in the end you may find yourself becoming very close with each other. Best of Luck! also, good luck with your new program

[SydWitches]

Originally Posted by Johnny162

Definitely have a serious conversation with everyone at the beginning to set up the house rules. I found that the biggest issue was chores. keeping on top of people to get chores done can be a hassle, so i recommend creating a chore list (we made a chore wheel) and posting it in a visible spot. That way everyone can tell who has dropped the ball in a certain area and it doesnt have to be the same person going after the slackers (if any) all the time. Also be respectful of noise. My room is right off the kitchen so of course noise can be an issue at times, but once i discussed with everyone my habits/preferences, they were pretty respectful. just keep in mind that it is a 'give and take' situation and that there will always be issues, big or small, but try not to get stressed out over the little things and in the end you may find yourself becoming very close with each other. Best of Luck! also, good luck with your new program

the cleaning is done for him in westvillage.

[thatdudeukno]

I'm living with random housemates too. Everything is an experience, I think it will be fun!