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Originally Posted by Unregistered
I don't get the mentality of this generation/culture. Sometime you gotta do what you gotta do, like arranged marriages.
Are you going to reject it just because you don't love the person?
No! You make it work! Eventually love will bloom over time.
Same with a career. Make sure you pick one that will obtain the most respect and monetary compensation that fit your skills set. Eventually you will learn to love the job.
This doesn't apply to everywhere, but not everyone know what their passions and drive is of yet. If you don't know, just pick respect and money. It won't steer you wrong.
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Sorry, but I completely disagree. There's a reason that arranged marriages are almost non-existent in Western culture. That was an absolutely terrible analogy.
Are you in high school? It's not uncommon to have the mentality that you need a high-paying prestigious job (if you want proof, look at my username. I guarantee you that if I made this account today, I would not pick that name).
Besides, as others have mentioned, a genuine passion for your job will mean that you are better at it, which could easily lead to promotions and thus $$$.
Everyone from upper year students, to career advisors to people in the workplace will tell you that you pick the job and then worry about money not the other way around.