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Old 09-10-2009 at 06:44 PM   #1
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New to mac
Hi guys
Its my first year and just lookin to make new friends
Old 09-10-2009 at 07:03 PM   #2
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Heh, leave the dorm and go meet people
If not on res, join some clubs or whatnot
Old 09-10-2009 at 07:39 PM   #3
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Heh, leave the dorm and go meet people
If not on res, join some clubs or whatnot
Me too! Though generally, I hate people :|
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Old 09-10-2009 at 08:29 PM   #4
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Sigh. People our age are far too judgemental. Then again, so are older adults. ... And teens. Well, hell.
Old 09-10-2009 at 08:33 PM   #5
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Sigh. People our age are far too judgemental. Then again, so are older adults. ... And teens. Well, hell.
Geez, why don'tcha just add babies on that list?

I'm Cheri. XD
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Old 09-10-2009 at 08:35 PM   #6
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Sigh. People our age are far too judgemental. Then again, so are older adults. ... And teens. Well, hell.
HAHAHAHA I'm a young adult, so I'm in the clear.
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Old 09-10-2009 at 08:36 PM   #7
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Aww, babies are cute and haven't learned how to be judgemental yet. The poor impressionable things.

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HAHAHAHA I'm a young adult, so I'm in the clear.
Psht. I believe you're still in my age bracket sir. >.> EDIT: Or maybe not. o.o

But yes, I'm always open to meeting new people, including you suketu :]
Old 09-10-2009 at 08:36 PM   #8
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HAHAHAHA I'm a young adult, so I'm in the clear.
You're past the 30 mark. Actually, some people even consider 25 over the hill.

You're an old adult.
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You're past the 30 mark. Actually, some people even consider 25 over the hill.

You're an old adult.
Either way, she said "oldER adults", not "old adults".

Stop being judgemental, dirty teen.
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Old 09-10-2009 at 08:39 PM   #10
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And Cheri proves my point about judgementality! The world is a cruel place. Well, this thread is off-topic.

The point is, people are judgemental, but some of them can be good friends, like us nice folk at MI.
Old 09-10-2009 at 08:55 PM   #11
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some of them can be good friends, like us nice folk at MI.
Absolutely agree!

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Hi guys
Its my first year and just lookin to make new friends
I know university can seem very intimidating (especially if you went to a small highschool). But don’t be afraid to talk to people. There are a bunch of first year students in the same boat as you. Join clubs, talk to people in your lectures and tutorials, come out to the MacInsider's dinner tommorow....just remember that you will not get anything if you don’t try!

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Old 09-10-2009 at 09:58 PM   #12
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Either way, she said "oldER adults", not "old adults".

Stop being judgemental, dirty teen.
Stop hanging out with this dirty teen, you creepy old man.

I win.
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Old 09-10-2009 at 10:08 PM   #13
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Stop hanging out with this dirty teen, you creepy old man.

I win.
Us creepy old men need to seen in public every once in a while with a pretty young girl. Otherwise we're dirty old men, not creepy old men. Thats a step down the ladder, for those keeping track :|
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Old 09-10-2009 at 10:20 PM   #14
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Hey Suketu,
Welcome to Mac and I promise you're going to have a great time though everyone has their own adjustment period and yours may or may not be longer/more intense than your peers.
The most important thing to remember about any social situation is:
A. Never give up
B. Never sell yourself short

For instance, if you start talking to a group of people who aren't very welcoming, don't get discouraged, try again with another group or perhaps just one person at a time. Don't sell yourself short (now or ever) by thinking that one or two or several for some of us, bad social experiences define us as people or that we'll "never fit in".

That's a wonderful thing about university.
With over 20000 undergraduates, you're sure to find a crowd that you can be yourself around and feel comfortable with; it just takes some time.
Maybe bonding over electrons and/or mitochondria isn't your thing - talking over coffee or in the locker rooms after a big game might be.
Or perhaps you're really a bit shy and can't bring yourself to dress up all in maroon like the Maroons (though I hear that's an amazing way to meet new people), so chatting up one or two people in tutorials, labs, near by residences, etc might be.

Just keep trying - every person you meet is a new possibility.
Do give yourself a bit of a push to get started but don't feel forced to jump out of your skin and be somebody you feel pressured to be.
If bonding over annual physicals or clubbing at 1280 make you feel downright uncomfortable, you don't have to do that.

You will find friends, you will meet people, you will adjust, these will be some amazing years, you will be accepted and you will begin some amazing adventures.

You can always start again tomorrow Nothing (except those wall carvings) is set in stone here
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