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Originally Posted by RyanC
Are you implying you have a girlfriend but you're shes not beautiful, or is the first feature you look for in a girl is her appearance? Either way, go to match.com, mister stud engineer.
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first feature that most people look for in the opposite sex is attraction, so obviously their appearance to you matters, and although it may be entirely superficial it makes you interested in finding out more about that person.
Sure you may find out that you have nothing in common, but it's the instant attraction that makes you want to find out more anyways, which isn't, in itself, a bad thing. The idea you'd ask out a total stranger that you didn't find attractive is a little naive, but most people tend to date within their social groups anyways, which makes someones aesthetics less important than their traits.