Enjoy.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jb3UobSZl34

Originally Posted by Tailsnake

Social is Tonight, we can discuss these matters there

I'm not going to social tonight.... I can't. :'(

i know a lot of "nice guys". I can tell you that most of us enter the "friendship zone" with those people we wish a relationship with. As such, if you want a "nice guy" a good guideline is look for guys who have been single for a while, and havnt had many girlfriends, despite maybe being friends with many girls. Also, these people are looking for a relationship and are more likely to be totally dedicated to the relationship because they get so few opportunities.

Girls will tell you they'd love to date a nice guy, but at the end of the day, they end up with the douchebags who treat them like sh*t, and then they cry that there are no good guys in the world. Stuff like this is why a lot of nice guys end up becoming douchebags, it's a vicious cycle.

Originally Posted by Desda

The end goal of dating is marriage. With that being said, you should get to know someone before you start dating them. And when problems arise, the two of you should try to solve it. After all, a relationship should take commitment and time.

But the thing is, a lot of people talk about how "experience" is important. Is it?


Share your thoughts!


Off-topic: is my favourite icon.

Do you want my psych notes for 1xx and 1x?

Originally Posted by Souldier

Girls will tell you they'd love to date a nice guy, but at the end of the day, they end up with the douchebags who treat them like sh*t, and then they cry that there are no good guys in the world. Stuff like this is why a lot of nice guys end up becoming douchebags, it's a vicious cycle.

I've been acting as a douche lately. It's very productive!

Originally Posted by Souldier

Girls will tell you they'd love to date a nice guy, but at the end of the day, they end up with the douchebags who treat them like sh*t, and then they cry that there are no good guys in the world. Stuff like this is why a lot of nice guys end up becoming douchebags, it's a vicious cycle.

so frigen true i had to deal with so many of my girlfriendz crying to me about their break ups and it pissz me off cause they were warned how the guy is a douche and they ignore us then they pms about it .

PMS=Pissed at Men Syndrome. FYI

Originally Posted by lizziepizzie

PMS=Pissed at Men Syndrome. FYI

rofl izzie you gotta admit girls honestly make THE worst choices possible honestly they might have like the perfect guy they are looking for rite beside them as a great friend but they dun realize and instead go for like the biggest douche imaginable but all they can see is sum weird "amazing quality" about thee guy

Originally Posted by bloodywarz

rofl izzie you gotta admit girls honestly make THE worst choices possible honestly they might have like the perfect guy they are looking for rite beside them as a great friend but they dun realize and instead go for like the biggest douche imaginable but all they can see is sum weird "amazing quality" about thee guy

I'm sad to admit that I did find who I thought was "the perfect guy," asked him out, and he said no. He was a very good friend of mine (since I was 5), and I ruined that. But I do believe you have to be friends first. And I don't go for douche bags. Only once, several years ago. But it's law that every girl needs to go for one bad guy. I did, that's over and done with. But I also have some very good guy friends who I'm not interested in that way. But that's why they're FRIENDS. You can't be interested in every guy you meet.

Holy jadedness in this thread, batman.

Relationships don't follow theory or guidelines.

Marriage is nothing more than a seal of approval for a relationship (that and you get mowed down by taxes! yay!). Not to say it's a negative thing, but it's also something people need to chill out about. I suspect divorce rates are on the climb because people don't really TRULY know each other prior to taking vows. Partially because they want to claim someone as their own, partially because everyone (even dudes... actually PARTICULARLY DUDES) have a picturesque view of end-game relationship status. It all becomes a mess if it's done for the wrong reasons, but it can also be epic! Despite this, cliches and stereotypes seem to cloud everyone's vision, causing more problems than necessary.

Relationships are tricky.
Life is tricky.
People can be jerks.
People can also be perfect, but they don't have to be.


It's just a matter of finding a fit and putting in WORK!

You all know what work is, right? You ARE university students

in my opinion this is what the conclusion is to thsi thread

please watch it , and give me your opinions

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ

Originally Posted by Juve

in my opinion this is what the conclusion is to thsi thread

please watch it , and give me your opinions

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ

I know you were trying to be funny but the joke is on you, because it actually fits with the theme of the thread.

That theme being stupid.

yes i was trying to be funny , but i also knew it fir teh topic thats y i posted it

I'd like to be married one day, but I don't feel as though many people (especially at this age) approach relationships with that in mind. It's an afterthought.

People also stay together for years without feeling that they need to have a public declaration of their commitment to each other. Besides in Canada if two people are living together as a couple for [insert number of years here, because I forgot], they are considered "married".