Originally Posted by bloodywarz

yea im guessing they referring to us 2 o.o

and thatz true often after honey moon the sex decreases to like once or twice a week or sumthing... are you kidding me thats like nothing :|

^^ All in the POV of a guy... hahaha

Originally Posted by lizziepizzie

^^ All in the POV of a guy... hahaha

well i heard that a lot from most of the ppl i know who are married :(
yea someone gave me the same advise when i was like 15 "the moment you stop dating each other even when your married your sexlife and happiness will drop, so even when your married take em on dates" why i was told this when i was only 15 i have no clue but stil lpretty good advise i think

Originally Posted by Freija

maybe you should think for yourself instead of asking others what you should think

this..

Originally Posted by VastHorizon

I know this doesn't concern any of you, but here's something I wrote
after I was dumped before that I would like to share. I haven't moved on and it has been a while since
I last spoke to her. Long story short, it started the moment I met her.

It is what it is, but what I felt was something out of the ordinary.

Reason why I posted this? Nothing, really. Just wanted to share.
I am not "emo" or anything of the sort. But the emotions that I've felt/still feeling are incredibly strong and profound.

I am still haunted by it and every night is just a pain.

And no, I am not a wuss.

This was beautiful! It's hard to believe that guys could actually feel so much. That's considering guys in schools and universities atleast. Most guys I believe like to just "have some fun" (which was mentioned in this thread loong before) and prefer to not get involved in serious committed relationship which could potentially lead to marriage. So yeah it's a surprise seeing a guy who was heartbroken. I am sure at one point you thought that the girl doesn't know what she is losing. I have written some stuff too and can feel the pain. Just look fwd and believe in, whatever happens, happens for the best You will get someone who loves you more than you loved/still love that girl.

On the topic: I agree with the OP and feel that dating though could be fun shouldn't be done aimlessly. If you don't intend to stick around for even the closest possible time, don't give others the wrong notions. Cuz you don't know how serious the other person is about the relationship. According to me, a relationship should be All or none kinda thing. Once you are in..you should be in and should give it your all, cuz that's what I (would) do and would want the same approach from the other party.

Originally Posted by bloodywarz

im not really a big seinfeild fan i find that its too old....best tv shows ever made: dragon ball z, friends, and scrubs


sooo dating is nice rite guys

Seinfeld is classic. Friends is great too, but really, for 5 years Seinfeld and Friends were airing simultaneously, so how are those episodes for Friends fine and for Seinfeld "too old"?

Originally Posted by Richa

This was beautiful! It's hard to believe that guys could actually feel so much. That's considering guys in schools and universities atleast. Most guys I believe like to just "have some fun" (which was mentioned in this thread loong before) and prefer to not get involved in serious committed relationship which could potentially lead to marriage. So yeah it's a surprise seeing a guy who was heartbroken. I am sure at one point you thought that the girl doesn't know what she is losing. I have written some stuff too and can feel the pain. Just look fwd and believe in, whatever happens, happens for the best You will get someone who loves you more than you loved/still love that girl.

On the topic: I agree with the OP and feel that dating though could be fun shouldn't be done aimlessly. If you don't intend to stick around for even the closest possible time, don't give others the wrong notions. Cuz you don't know how serious the other person is about the relationship. According to me, a relationship should be All or none kinda thing. Once you are in..you should be in and should give it your all, cuz that's what I (would) do and would want the same approach from the other party.

Yah one of my good friends asked his gf to marr him (he had a beatiful ring and everythng) and she said yes. They were so young though, he was 18 and she was 17. She ended up breaking up with him. I don't know, I just think that's way too young to marry anyways... I mean, you haven't even found out who you are yet. And he took it pretty hard. So I think guys can be emotional like that, too. It runs both ways, right? Some girls don't show any emotion at all. But I gess girls have the rep that they are more emotional than guys are... and I agree that just becase a guy writes something like that doesn't make him emo.

Originally Posted by Alchemist11

Seinfeld is classic. Friends is great too, but really, for 5 years Seinfeld and Friends were airing simultaneously, so how are those episodes for Friends fine and for Seinfeld "too old"?

well i only found out about friends last year during the first month of school and i ended up watching all the seasons in under a month. for Seinfeld the frist episode i seen was just way too old looking and felt like a 1970s show so yea i just couldnt live through it

Originally Posted by lizziepizzie

Yah one of my good friends asked his gf to marr him (he had a beatiful ring and everythng) and she said yes. They were so young though, he was 18 and she was 17. She ended up breaking up with him. I don't know, I just think that's way too young to marry anyways... I mean, you haven't even found out who you are yet. And he took it pretty hard. So I think guys can be emotional like that, too. It runs both ways, right? Some girls don't show any emotion at all. But I gess girls have the rep that they are more emotional than guys are... and I agree that just becase a guy writes something like that doesn't make him emo.

No surprise it was the girl that broke up with the guy.

plain and simple: dating is different for everyone. Some are looking for a long dedicated relationship without too cheating and drama. Others are looking toward just having fun, partying, and having a blast without worrying too much about commitment, while others just want a mixture of both. So in the end its up for you to decide what it is that you want and go for that.

Originally Posted by rcrw88

"Its the journey thats important, not the end goal."











or some sappy shat like that?

You've been going to too many McLean lectures.

Originally Posted by bloodywarz

plain and simple: dating is different for everyone. Some are looking for a long dedicated relationship without too cheating and drama. Others are looking toward just having fun, partying, and having a blast without worrying too much about commitment, while others just want a mixture of both. So in the end its up for you to decide what it is that you want and go for that.

It is also important that you make yourself clear from the start and let the other person know what you are looking for in the relationship. If you just want to have fun and the other person is more serious than then..you will end up breaking yet another heart and will not even realize it until the same thing happens to you.

Originally Posted by Souldier

No surprise it was the girl that broke up with the guy.

I am pretty sure this was just an instance, there should be many instances like this where the guy breaks up too or wants the girl to break it off, just so he is not stuck with guilt.

Originally Posted by Richa

This was beautiful! It's hard to believe that guys could actually feel so much. That's considering guys in schools and universities atleast. Most guys I believe like to just "have some fun" (which was mentioned in this thread loong before) and prefer to not get involved in serious committed relationship which could potentially lead to marriage. So yeah it's a surprise seeing a guy who was heartbroken. I am sure at one point you thought that the girl doesn't know what she is losing. I have written some stuff too and can feel the pain. Just look fwd and believe in, whatever happens, happens for the best You will get someone who loves you more than you loved/still love that girl.

Thanks, Richa.

I really appreciate it.

Is it wrong to go after girls purely for sex and companionship? Not talkin' the dirty quick sex (though it has it's place) talkin the deep, heavy, spine tingling, hand holding, hair stroking, dirty talking, squeezing and rocking sex.

Originally Posted by NowHere

Is it wrong to go after girls purely for sex and companionship? Not talkin' the dirty quick sex (though it has it's place) talkin the deep, heavy, spine tingling, hand holding, hair stroking, dirty talking, squeezing and rocking sex.

Sex and companionship? Sort of sounds like a relationship, tbh.
Unless you're great friends with amazing benefits