Originally Posted by bloodywarz

lol that really is true but hahaha telling someone to change themselve isn't easy in anyway what so ever its best to look for someone who suites ur lifestyle instead of changing yourself for someone else cause then you really arent being you which often makes relationshipz end in a disaster.

I think you're missing their point. If you're looking for someone to "complete" you, then you're bound for disaster. If you feel incomplete on your own, dating someone else isn't going to fix that. If you feel complete, but still want to date someone, then you don't have a problem because you're more likely to find someone who is compatible with you anyway.

As for all of this debate on "good girls" and "good guys", I think it's all bull and just an excuse people use to explain why they're single. I consider myself a "good girl" who is looking for a "good guy", but that "good guy" hasn't come around yet. I've dated several "good guys", but they haven't been the guy for me because we were incompatible for several reasons. Not a huge deal. Hopefully my "good guy" will come around some day.

Was wondering why this post had so many replies, damn this thing went off topic

Originally Posted by lawleypop

Your stupidity bothers me, that's about it. Among other things.

awh is little girl angry? im sorry how about i give you a cookie? dun worry the feeling is mutual for once

Originally Posted by AlienSummer

I think you're missing their point. If you're looking for someone to "complete" you, then you're bound for disaster. If you feel incomplete on your own, dating someone else isn't going to fix that. If you feel complete, but still want to date someone, then you don't have a problem because you're more likely to find someone who is compatible with you anyway.

As for all of this debate on "good girls" and "good guys", I think it's all bull and just an excuse people use to explain why they're single. I consider myself a "good girl" who is looking for a "good guy", but that "good guy" hasn't come around yet. I've dated several "good guys", but they haven't been the guy for me because we were incompatible for several reasons. Not a huge deal. Hopefully my "good guy" will come around some day.

oh kk yea i must have misunderstood. yea if you feel incomplete then dating really isnt going to solve anything, it'll probably make things worse... yea for that you need to fist find out whats wrong , fix it then continue agree with you on that

Originally Posted by Yakattack

Was wondering why this post had so many replies, damn this thing went off topic

ROFL oh man that happens so often now but in the end we sumhow crawl back to the topic at one point or another

Personally, I think that's wrong.

The end-goal of dating isn't necessarily marriage. Actually, let's back up a bit. Let's look at what kind of people you are asking.

If you ask the typical highschool student, they'll answer: Sex.
If you ask the typical University student, then they'll probably answer something along the lines of: Long-term commitment.


I personally prefer to go for the Long-term Commitment and see how it goes from there. Problem is that I have yet to actually date someone, ha ha...

Originally Posted by AdelaisAer

Personally, I think that's wrong.

The end-goal of dating isn't necessarily marriage. Actually, let's back up a bit. Let's look at what kind of people you are asking.

If you ask the typical highschool student, they'll answer: Sex.
If you ask the typical University student, then they'll probably answer something along the lines of: Long-term commitment.


I personally prefer to go for the Long-term Commitment and see how it goes from there. Problem is that I have yet to actually date someone, ha ha...

You mean highschool guys. If you asked girls they'd probably say something on the lines of finding the perfect sparkle-in-the-light boyfriend who never sleeps.......

so, instead, he watches you sleep.

Originally Posted by amyshi

You mean highschool guys. If you asked girls they'd probably say something on the lines of finding the perfect sparkle-in-the-light boyfriend who never sleeps.......

so, instead, he watches you sleep.

dun girls realize how creepy that is.... like there you are sleeping and you open your eyes up in the middle of the night and you see sumone just watching you.. like how in the world is that considered sexy

Originally Posted by bloodywarz

dun girls realize how creepy that is.... like there you are sleeping and you open your eyes up in the middle of the night and you see sumone just watching you.. like how in the world is that considered sexy

After the Cecilia incident, my friend slept with a knife under her pillow for a year.....imagine some guy staring at her when she sleeps and she wakes up....

Alright, I stand corrected. Ask the typical guy in highschool, he'll answer with "sex". Ask the typical girl in highschool, she'll go on and on about some retarded fairy tale.


In University, people have a better grasp on today's world.



Don't get me wrong. I want to settle down one day, have a wife and kids, yada yada. But you have to start small. Dating, then long-term, then see where that takes you. Not going to date for the sake of dating. Not going to date for the sake of sex. Not going to date for the sake of hoping it'll become some fantasy.

Originally Posted by AdelaisAer

Alright, I stand corrected. Ask the typical guy in highschool, he'll answer with "sex". Ask the typical girl in highschool, she'll go on and on about some retarded fairy tale.


In University, people have a better grasp on today's world.



Don't get me wrong. I want to settle down one day, have a wife and kids, yada yada. But you have to start small. Dating, then long-term, then see where that takes you. Not going to date for the sake of dating. Not going to date for the sake of sex. Not going to date for the sake of hoping it'll become some fantasy.

totally agree with you on that. i dun want to worry about marriage now, i want to eventually but rite now just having a proper committed relationship ^^

Originally Posted by amyshi

After the Cecilia incident, my friend slept with a knife under her pillow for a year.....imagine some guy staring at her when she sleeps and she wakes up....

ok wow i just imagined a girl waking up and seeing cullens watching her and she literally just slices his throat open..... and the biggest smile spread across my face.... does that make me a bad person :(

Originally Posted by AdelaisAer

In University, people have a better grasp on today's world.

That is complete and utter BS

Originally Posted by xxsumz

That is complete and utter BS

Well, compared to highschool students...

Originally Posted by bloodywarz

totally agree with you on that. i dun want to worry about marriage now, i want to eventually but rite now just having a proper committed relationship ^^



ok wow i just imagined a girl waking up and seeing cullens watching her and she literally just slices his throat open..... and the biggest smile spread across my face.... does that make me a bad person :(

Okay sorry guys; here I'm going to take on the girly girl role (although that's not me at all), but I love Edward Cullen. Its not that he sprakles, forget the way he looks at all. Its the way he treats Bella. If you read the book you'd understand. The movies are good, but they don't entirely show the kind of emotion Edward has for Bella. Every girl wants to be treated the way Edward treats Bella. I do not, however, understand the obsession over RPatz. He's an actor, not actuakky Edward Cyllen. Too many people get the character and the actor confused.

Originally Posted by JEFF_CHAN

If anything, he was worse than last time >__>

Originally Posted by Tailsnake

EPIC WIN RIGHT HERE

Originally Posted by lorend

Most of us who work as editors have realized you can't get people to write grammatically correct on forums, so we've given up.

It's alright, most of us in engineering have already given up all hope on writing properly anyway. We've come to the conclusion that we're a lost cause.