10-19-2010 at 10:24 PM
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What about the non rich, non douchey, average looking, fun to talk to, down to earth girls... that are not approached... anyone have a cure for that
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We could always meet and talk  |
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10-19-2010 at 10:25 PM
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My math prof is hotter.
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For the guys who complain about girls.
coughEntropylastnight cough.
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So here's the deal. To put things simply, I'm the gay friend (minus the gay) for about 6 different girls. This frustrates me to no end. I don't mind being there for them and helping out, but I've reached a personal breaking point. I have plenty of female friends, I hang out with girls all the time, I just never get to the relationship phase ever or get any action. I'm not hideously ugly, I have good social skills hindered by a dark sense of humor (that I've been working on toning down), and I like to think I'm a pretty nice guy (most people I know will agree). I apologize for textually stroking myself there, but my main point is I'm your typical nice guy- not an introvert in a black trenchcoat.
The response that you need to read:
http://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/dskfv/im_the_gay_friend_min usthegay_help/c12lgdt
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What about the non rich, non douchey, average looking, fun to talk to, down to earth girls... that are not approached... anyone have a cure for that
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Sadly, I have no such link for girls. Nor advice of my own. Wasn't interested in anyone, really, until I met the guy I'm with now. Mostly because, for some reason that I can't fathom, the guys in my classes in highschool were all somewhat terrified of me. :(
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10-19-2010 at 10:29 PM
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If you know how to get chicks, and you talk to hot girl. Even if you look like a pitbull, Trust me you would get laid. Hot girls aren't approched by much guys anyway, unless it's in a bar(alcohol).
And to the guys who say they date for happiness. Oh please, stop it with the virgin talk. Getting close to girls is for getting laid. Unless, the girl isn't single or you're too afraid to stand up to her boyfriend. Or unless, she's a lesbian...
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10-19-2010 at 10:55 PM
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Would that Buzz Aldrin thing actually work?
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10-19-2010 at 11:22 PM
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Would that Buzz Aldrin thing actually work?
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I don't know much about the guy specifically.
The pickup line? I dunno. I've always found pickup lines lulzy at best. The confidence? Yes. |
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10-19-2010 at 11:31 PM
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Oh okay. I said that you'd only see his profile (because you'd be beside him) But yeah, I agree with the texting/phone/computer thing. So, in this case, what would you suggest. Do I ask for his email or number??
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You're to get his number.. But not during class: After class, while you're packing up. That's always a successful wrap-up. The last thing you both go off with in your mind is the dinner/meet-up is SCHEDULED, and you both have a way to get a hold of the other one.
I've got more successful tactics, especially for the exchange of numbers, but they require you to be of the opposite sex  |
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10-19-2010 at 11:40 PM
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Hmm, I might have to try that... I normally don't like pickup lines either (except when their obviously done ironically), but I kindof like the idea. I can't see it being very successful though.
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10-19-2010 at 11:53 PM
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Since we've got a guy asking then: Smooth move of the month is when you borrow their phone, call yourself and don't pick up... Then show her how you now have her number. Seems simple, especially if you know a little bit about the software in your phone, but she'll (And now, by "she", I nullify any girl reading this) be a little intrigued at your resourcefulness. OH and it prevents any screw ups of digits, or any fake-numbers.
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10-20-2010 at 12:09 AM
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Originally Posted by lizziepizzie
Oh okay. I said that you'd only see his profile (because you'd be beside him) But yeah, I agree with the texting/phone/computer thing. So, in this case, what would you suggest. Do I ask for his email or number??
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wait.. wait.. are you asking how to approach A GUY? Man, honestly, if you don't look half bad, just sit beside him, talk to him. Trust me, I'd be more than willing to have a conversation with a chick if she started talking to me first (or it might just be me).
Even if you ARE half bad, wear something that shows off your boobs or your butt,
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10-20-2010 at 12:18 AM
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wait.. wait.. are you asking how to approach A GUY? Man, honestly, if you don't look half bad, just sit beside him, talk to him. Trust me, I'd be more than willing to have a conversation with a chick if she started talking to me first (or it might just be me).
Even if you ARE half bad, wear something that shows off your boobs or your butt,
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You're not being very positive And showing your boobs or butt is cheating on my challenge. |
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10-20-2010 at 12:25 AM
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aahhh i dont even know, my boyfriend and i started dating 7 months ago, how far have we gotten? well lets see...
saw each other every day, 14hrs a day (worked together) until i came to uni
had our own home after dating for 4 months
still havent had a fight
talk EVERYTHING out
i have a promise ring on my finger
he knows how hes gonna propose to me
hes coming to mac next year to finish his degree, and we plan on living together everyday after that...
so when it comes down to it, isn't it just supposed to be the love of your life who gives you nothing but sheer happiness...ALL THE TIME?! whose hot and whose not just doesnt factor in a relationship like this!
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10-20-2010 at 12:28 AM
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∞/0? Only I know.
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Aabout that...do the ladies always expect the guys to whip up a convo? Don't they know some guys are just plain horrible at doing that? We're cool, and if you got to know us you probably won't be disappointed, but you probably won't get there if you always rely on the guy to start talking.
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10-20-2010 at 12:29 AM
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∞/0? Only I know.
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Originally Posted by smarties13
aahhh i dont even know, my boyfriend and i started dating 7 months ago, how far have we gotten? well lets see...
saw each other every day, 14hrs a day (worked together) until i came to uni
had our own home after dating for 4 months
still havent had a fight
talk EVERYTHING out
i have a promise ring on my finger
he knows how hes gonna propose to me
hes coming to mac next year to finish his degree, and we plan on living together everyday after that...
so when it comes down to it, isn't it just supposed to be the love of your life who gives you nothing but sheer happiness...ALL THE TIME?! whose hot and whose not just doesnt factor in a relationship like this!
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Well duh. You're already in the relationship  |
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10-20-2010 at 12:34 AM
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Originally Posted by SilentWalker
Aabout that...do the ladies always expect the guys to whip up a convo? Don't they know some guys are just plain horrible at doing that? We're cool, and if you got to know us you probably won't be disappointed, but you probably won't get there if you always rely on the guy to start talking.
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This lady doesn't.
I imagine many do, though.
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