Originally Posted by CuTieTiFFie~

omg like seriously
i walked into an engineering class once
i thought we were back in the stone age or something
i mean we live in a world of internet we have people like michelle phan who can teach us how to put on makeup..
i mean like HELLO GIRLS
it only takes 10 minutes to put on foundation, fill in my eye brows, a bit of eyeliner mascara and shadow.
like i understand that there are some girls who are just born unlucky and i think it's perfectly acceptable to just wear sweatpants and a hoodie cuz theres like hope for them anyway

like honestly girls its not that hard get your act together

heres some help
http://www.youtube.com/results?searc...+makeup&a q=f

I love you.

Originally Posted by lizziepizzie

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU



Exactly, if you are implying (and you obviously are) that girls need to look better or dress more nicely or whatever, then guys should do the same! Some guys on campus look like absolute slobs! And I really don't care, because like everyone else is saying, WE ARE HERE TO LEARN! It's such a double standard to say that girls need to look nice. I've seen girls on campus in stiletto heels at 8:30 AM and they look ridiculous. Albeit, it is true that many marriages are a product of university relationships, it isn't true that the only attraction to a person is because of their appearance.

Weren't you the one asking about relationship advice and how to woo this guy?

Originally Posted by Cliu91

Weren't you the one asking about relationship advice and how to woo this guy?

Yes... well, kind of. But I never wear sweatpants to class/usually look nice. Plus he doesn't go to Mac so he doesn't ever see me on campus anyways. But I'm over him now anyway, so that's out.

Originally Posted by lizziepizzie

Yes... well, kind of. But I never wear sweatpants to class/usually look nice. Plus he doesn't go to Mac so he doesn't ever see me on campus anyways. But I'm over him now anyway, so that's out.

Haha, you remind me of a good friend of mine.

Originally Posted by Cliu91

Haha, you remind me of a good friend of mine.

How so? And is that a good thing or a bad thing?

Originally Posted by lizziepizzie

How so? And is that a good thing or a bad thing?

Just the way you type and think.
Almost identical, it's a good thing.

Why do girls need to look good all of the time? Last year, when I was on campus from 8:30am until 11pm for class, labs and studying, why would I want more distractions from a guy trying to approach me? I spend enough time trying to get my work done as it is.

I never dressed in sweatpants, but it was typically jeans and a sweater/hoodie and just my hair pulled back into a ponytail. Even with just that, I've been asked out more than once.
Only time I ever wear makeup is when I'm going out or have a presentation/interview. You're at university to LEARN, not to try and look good for everyone else. Last time I checked, you didn't have to be dressed well to learn well.

And also, why would I want to start dating a guy who likes me based entirely on how well I dress? I would rather date someone that likes me for being myself (ie. personality) and won't leave me just because I didn't have time to do my hair or makeup.

Yeah, I can clean up when I need to, but why do it all the time? It just gets old. If you don't dress up all the time, then when you do clean up, it makes that time more important.

Originally Posted by JBeans

I never dressed in sweatpants, but it was typically jeans and a sweater/hoodie and just my hair pulled back into a ponytail..

Mmmm, ponytails.

I like to dress well and not look like a slob because it makes me feel good and I'd be uncomfortable otherwise. I don't dress well for others, I don't dress well because I'm trying to hit on girls or I'm hoping to get picked up. I think it's important to make a good impression in all circumstances, you need a certain level of self respect to take the effort to dress nicely every day.

lol at all the girls in this thread saying they don't dress nicely because they don't want the attention and they don't want to be hit on, stop being so full of yourselves. You dress like a slob for one reason, and one reason only, because you are a slob.

Originally Posted by Souldier

I like to dress well and not look like a slob because it makes me feel good and I'd be uncomfortable otherwise. I don't dress well for others, I don't dress well because I'm trying to hit on girls or I'm hoping to get picked up. I think it's important to make a good impression in all circumstances, you need a certain level of self respect to dress nicely.

lol at all the girls in this thread saying they don't dress nicely because they don't want the attention and they don't want to be hit on, stop being so full of yourselves. You dress like a slob for one reason, and one reason only, because you are a slob.

dude, you'd be surprised

we have some seriously desperate guys on campus, i know chicks who put zero effort into their appearance and still get asked out a few times a term

so i don't blame them for rationalizing it that way, some guys will ask chicks out without ever having spoken to them and that is just the definition of AWKWARD

Originally Posted by Kendoon

some guys will ask chicks out without ever having spoken to them and that is just the definition of AWKWARD

That's why I don't approach them. If she's interested, she can approach me. If I want to be approached, the only hint I give away is giving her a brief eye contact and maybe a smile. However, I tend to look away just before she had the chance to notice it. I am not interesting playing the "guy catches girl" game where the girl expects the guy to approach her.

However, if she catches me glancing at her often and just stand there when I have to go, it's her loss.

I have a girlfriend of two years anyway, so double loss.

Originally Posted by Kendoon

dude, you'd be surprised

we have some seriously desperate guys on campus, i know chicks who put zero effort into their appearance and still get asked out a few times a term

so i don't blame them for rationalizing it that way, some guys will ask chicks out without ever having spoken to them and that is just the definition of AWKWARD

TRUE. Seen it happen.

Originally Posted by Souldier

lol at all the girls in this thread saying they don't dress nicely because they don't want the attention and they don't want to be hit on, stop being so full of yourselves. You dress like a slob for one reason, and one reason only, because you are a slob.

There's a difference between dressing like a slob and just not wearing makeup and doing your hair fancy everyday. I wouldn't say I'm a slob, but I'm also not trying to dress to impress everyday. I take care of myself to look presentable but am also not trying to attract every guy's attention. Would you rather date someone that only cares how they look to everyone else or when they go out are rleaxed and actually enjoy themselves?

Originally Posted by Kendoon

dude, you'd be surprised

we have some seriously desperate guys on campus, i know chicks who put zero effort into their appearance and still get asked out a few times a term

so i don't blame them for rationalizing it that way, some guys will ask chicks out without ever having spoken to them and that is just the definition of AWKWARD

Maybe, just maybe, they aren't attracted to her because of her looks? Unless the guy never spoke to the chick. In that case....LOLOLOLOLOLOL OLOLOLOLOLOLOL.