Originally Posted by ZSimon

Everybody, one day will die, and be forgotten. Act and behave in a way that will make life interesting and fun. F**k a mundane and predictable life working Monday to Friday doing something you derive no pleasure from; just living life out until you grow old and wither away. Find a passion, form friendships and relationships, don't be afraid to get out there and forget what everyone else thinks. Trust me its a lot more fun that way.

in other words #YOLO AKA just bang a fat chick at 1280 (there's plenty) and be done with it.

Begin with a friendship!

If you are -actually- in medicine at the tender age of 21 you can have my number

Originally Posted by olive2

If you are -actually- in medicine at the tender age of 21 you can have my number

Why only if you're in Medicine? :(

*Changes program*

there's a speed dating session coming up at one of the Toronto Public Libraries, it's quite far and it's on a Wednesday but if you are interested you can go.

just be yourself and someone will come along that will appreciate you for who you are, be approachable and friendly!

Find what you like to do. Invite a girl you're interested in to whatever it is you do, hang out with your friends, do your favourite sport, talk about your favourite things. You get to learn about what she likes to do, and then if you're both enjoying it, awesome.

Also, be attractive, it'll help the part where she's gotta like you along so that it's a mutual relationship

Get out of your comfort zone. You wont have much luck with anyone in this world unless you initiate conversation. Make a quick joke about the material in lecture, when the prof tells you to engage and discuss ideas, do so. If a female student is copying off your notes, write something like "I can just take down your #/e-mail after class to send you this." Boom, automatic connection. Speak out, and say it with conviction. Look people in the eyes. It is a sign of confidence. Girls like confidence. By confident I don't mean an ass/cocky, just be proud to be the person you are. You have to like yourself before anyone else will.

cold approach girls bro. if you really want a date, go out an approach 10 girls a day for the week you are bound to get a date.

In lectures, you gotta use your searching/wheeling skills. If you see a nice girl sitting by herself, sit beside her. Ask her a question about the lecture or something, then you start a conversation, then get her number. Easy peasy lemon squeezey.

Originally Posted by muhammadali

cold approach girls bro. if you really want a date, go out an approach 10 girls a day for the week you are bound to get a date.

All you need is a great pick up line. A truly good pick up line can increase your chances by 100%.

Buy a slice of cheese cake and offer to share it with someone.. That's how I met the guy I'm dating right now

Originally Posted by marciane13

Buy a slice of cheese cake and offer to share it with someone.. That's how I met the guy I'm dating right now

ahh yes, a way to a man's heart is through his stomach indeed.

I'm around your age, I haven't been on a date, or ever been in a relationship, so it's not really a big deal. Everyone is different, people whom are more extroverted and social will meet people more often. I'd say the best way to find that person for you, or at least get into a relationship is to meet new people. Like said previously, it's best for it not to be forced. Just be yourself, be open and friendly. Eventually, someone might come along. Also, if you ever have feelings for somebody. Don't hold them back, act on those feelings instead of not saying anything. From experience, I found that telling the person is better than wondering how they may feel. That way you know if something is between you two or not, if not move on to the next person. Don't look back. Good Luck.

Originally Posted by icecubz

ahh yes, a way to a man's heart is through his stomach indeed.

Much easier than going through the chest. The sternum is so hard to get through. :(