Originally Posted by bloodywarz

walk up to em and say hi.

Thank you, Mr. Obvious.

Originally Posted by Desda

Thank you, Mr. Obvious.

ok crazy emotional unstable person, an obviously dumb question deserves an obvious answer

Originally Posted by Souldier

I told you this before, but she was definitely sleeping with the guy while you were while you were still together. There is a good chance you kissed her after her mouth was on his you know what. (A mod will probably delete this post, so read it quick)

Possibly did a lot more than just kiss another guy before she kissed you...

Originally Posted by arathbon

Yeah I get that I actually do have lots of female friends (and I mean like legit friends not "I hang around with hoping it turns into a relationship" thing).

But it certainly is unnerving that I have probably been cheated on and left for another man by the one woman who ever showed serious interest in me.

My honest advice to you is stop looking for a girlfriend. It's clear you're not really over what happened, which means that even if you start dating a girl tomorrow, you're just going to treat her with suspicion (and she's more than likely just going to be your rebound). If you're confident in most other things, then focus on those things and one day a girl might approach you when you're at your best. And really, you're still young, so why force a relationship to happen? Just give it time and stop worrying about meeting someone.

Originally Posted by lizziepizzie

Possibly did a lot more than just kiss another guy before she kissed you...

I believe that was his point....

Originally Posted by arathbon

I believe that was his point....

Oh okay. haha Thought so, I was just clarifying.

Originally Posted by lizziepizzie

Possibly did a lot more than just kiss another guy before she kissed you...

Way to rub salt in the wound

Originally Posted by crazyfree

Way to rub salt in the wound

Just keepin' it real. Sorry haha. But, um, some people get turned on by that... *ahem* I don't know how/why.

Originally Posted by lizziepizzie

Oh okay. haha Thought so, I was just clarifying.

: banghead:

Originally Posted by jamesl

what are the best way to meet girls at mac ?

Just touch their bewbs.

Please let us know how that turns out.





















































*This is for humorous purposes. If you don't have any common sense, I strongly advise you not to do this*

Originally Posted by AlienSummer

My honest advice to you is stop looking for a girlfriend. It's clear you're not really over what happened, which means that even if you start dating a girl tomorrow, you're just going to treat her with suspicion (and she's more than likely just going to be your rebound). If you're confident in most other things, then focus on those things and one day a girl might approach you when you're at your best. And really, you're still young, so why force a relationship to happen? Just give it time and stop worrying about meeting someone.

To be honest a the two main reasons I've been trying to meet women, is because a)I'm lonely (not in the I have a shortage of people to talk to or spend time with, but in the it's not the same as being with someone in a very close relationship... which it was except for the last few months) and b) because I feel like I've made no progress in "moving on".

I have met one girl I really did legitimately have feelings for since then but it didn't work out well.

But just in general I have problems just stopping and letting things happen.

Originally Posted by arathbon

To be honest a the two main reasons I've been trying to meet women, is because a)I'm lonely (not in the I have a shortage of people to talk to or spend time with, but in the it's not the same as being with someone in a very close relationship... which it was except for the last few months) and b) because I feel like I've made no progress in "moving on".

I have met one girl I really did legitimately have feelings for since then but it didn't work out well.

But just in general I have problems just stopping and letting things happen.

Similar to my situation, had a similar outlook as you during the summer. Then comes the realization that to truly "move on" is not a matter of purely wishing to do so, but rather bettering yourself in any way possible and maintaining as positive an outlook as possible (FLOWWERS AND RAAAAAAAINBOWWWWSS!!) .

That means academically, physically, psychologically, etc.; the ladies may come and go but right now it's yourself whom you have to live and deal with. I try to fill my days with (mostly) stimulating activity with the goal of doing it for my future, not as a means of putting a haze over the past.

Everyone has spats of visible weakness, male and female, but I'm sure you've already realized you feel better as time goes by... like you said, it's likely better to let things happen while being proactive.

Originally Posted by Kendoon

Similar to my situation, had a similar outlook as you during the summer. Then comes the realization that to truly "move on" is not a matter of purely wishing to do so, but rather bettering yourself in any way possible and maintaining as positive an outlook as possible (FLOWWERS AND RAAAAAAAINBOWWWWSS!!) .

That means academically, physically, psychologically, etc.; the ladies may come and go but right now it's yourself whom you have to live and deal with. I try to fill my days with (mostly) stimulating activity with the goal of doing it for my future, not as a means of putting a haze over the past.

Everyone has spats of visible weakness, male and female, but I'm sure you've already realized you feel better as time goes by... like you said, it's likely better to let things happen while being proactive.

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Originally Posted by Kendoon

Similar to my situation, had a similar outlook as you during the summer. Then comes the realization that to truly "move on" is not a matter of purely wishing to do so, but rather bettering yourself in any way possible and maintaining as positive an outlook as possible (FLOWWERS AND RAAAAAAAINBOWWWWSS!!) .

That means academically, physically, psychologically, etc.; the ladies may come and go but right now it's yourself whom you have to live and deal with. I try to fill my days with (mostly) stimulating activity with the goal of doing it for my future, not as a means of putting a haze over the past.

Everyone has spats of visible weakness, male and female, but I'm sure you've already realized you feel better as time goes by... like you said, it's likely better to let things happen while being proactive.

This is very good advice! It's true, you can't rely on others to make you happy. You'll feel more fulfilled if you're happy with yourself before getting in a relationship and adding another person to the mix. Work on yourself a bit, it will come when it comes.

On an opposite note, it's so hard to hear "it will come when it comes" because it never feels like it will; we all know that. Love is best when it finds you, not when you look for it.

Follow closely behind them, sniff their hair, make grunting noises of excitment and you're sure to win them over. Also post on an internet forum, that's where they all collude in secrecy.