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Originally Posted by kuruczpa
I have a question for some of who who have been active in responding to this thread...
What are your thoughts on your girlfriend hanging out with past people she's 'slept' with / ex boyfriends? I see this as a problem and tell her no but somehow that is controlling her. I don't see it. Any thoughts?
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Why is it a problem? One of my closest friends is my ex. If you saw/heard the 2 of us together, you'd never know we were together at any point. And when she and I started dating, she was still pretty close with a couple of her exes. Never has it caused either of us problems.
The fact is, we all have a history, and unless you're 12, the person you're dating has been with other people. As far as Im concerned, if she's still friends with some exes, that means theres a good chance she and I will be friends after we break up too (and a breakup is the statistically likely outcome). What's wrong with having a friend you know you can trust?