Originally Posted by KYLB0T

Guys will pretty much see that as being flirty every time

Dislike. I was happy with not knowing that :(. Thank you for reaffirming that Kyle ..

Originally Posted by KYLB0T

Guys will pretty much see that as being flirty every time

In all seriousness, it's quite annoying. If you're an open, super-friendly person, you either have to

1) Be constantly aware of what you do/say (which is a pain in the ass)

or

2) Unknowingly lead people on and break hearts and cause drama.

Yay
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Honestly, the last few pages of this thread remind me of when I was 4 and was like "teehee, DUZ HE LYKE MI" after a boy teased me.

Originally Posted by lawleypop

Honestly, the last few pages of this thread remind me of when I was 4 and was like "teehee, DUZ HE LYKE MI" after a boy teased me.

Agreed.

Also, is it just me or does reading LizziePizzie's posts make you feel like you've lost 20 IQ points?

Originally Posted by AelyaS

In all seriousness, it's quite annoying. If you're an open, super-friendly person, you either have to

1) Be constantly aware of what you do/say (which is a pain in the ass)

or

2) Unknowingly lead people on and break hearts and cause drama.

Yay
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Exactly. And both options are equally horrible.. So I'd rather stick to #2 and blame it on others for the misinterpretation

Originally Posted by ~*Sara*~

Exactly. And both options are equally horrible.. So I'd rather stick to #2 and blame it on others for the misinterpretation

Oh, obviously. Like I'm ever going to go out of my way to double-think everything I'm about to say and do. Fuuuuckk thaaaat

I've heard from others that girls overthink things. Clearly, it's the other way around.

Originally Posted by lizziepizzie

I've heard from others that girls overthink things. Clearly, it's the other way around.

Nope, it's definitely you.

Originally Posted by malakovski

Uhh I dont think you read my post properly....

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lol I read your post properly. I have never heard someone call other person bum.

Since its pretty much all girls in here I'm not sure if I will have my eyes torn out or somthing, but I can tell the girls in here that if a guy approaches you in a class , and starts talking about stuff that isn't class related, there is a pretty good chance he isn't just hoping you will be his friend. He could play it up like that, to get to know you and make you feel comfortable, but if a single dude is approaching you he probably has more than friendship in mind.

And for both the guy and girls out there that do have a significant other, if somebody of the opposite sex approaches you out of the blue and seems quite friendly, it is common courtesy to try and at least mention your significant other at some point in the conversation. You don't have to brag, you don't have to be obvious, but it is simply make a small mention somewhere in there out of respect for your significant other.

Originally Posted by KYLB0T

Since its pretty much all girls in here I'm not sure if I will have my eyes torn out or somthing, but I can tell the girls in here that if a guy approaches you in a class , and starts talking about stuff that isn't class related, there is a pretty good chance he isn't just hoping you will be his friend. He could play it up like that, to get to know you and make you feel comfortable, but if a single dude is approaching you he probably has more than friendship in mind.

Kyle! What the heck man? Pass over your testicles now!

Or, you know, just mention a significant other whether there is or isn't one just to get the approaching person off your back.

Originally Posted by lizziepizzie

Or, you know, just mention a significant other whether there is or isn't one just to get the approaching person off your back.

Or you could just tell them you're not interested. Guys tend to not care if a girl has a boyfriend, especially if they don't know him. This is especially true if the girl acts interested.

Originally Posted by KYLB0T

Since its pretty much all girls in here I'm not sure if I will have my eyes torn out or somthing, but I can tell the girls in here that if a guy approaches you in a class , and starts talking about stuff that isn't class related, there is a pretty good chance he isn't just hoping you will be his friend. He could play it up like that, to get to know you and make you feel comfortable, but if a single dude is approaching you he probably has more than friendship in mind.

Not always. One of my classmates and I became good friends real fast, and he approached me first. I met another one of my friends, a great one, actually, in a circumstance that in every way, sounds like a movie.

I know you're speaking for most instances, but I also feel as though sweeping statements like that don't give the guys who really just want to be friends, a chance because of the stigma attached to males who approach females in classes.

Also, why is no one bringing up girls approaching guys in class? We do it all the time, and if anything we're worse because we don't have the label that guys do, and people assume we don't have cruel intentions, so we can just mess around with a guy's head. It's so bad

Originally Posted by AelyaS

Not always. One of my classmates and I became good friends real fast, and he approached me first. I met another one of my friends, a great one, actually, in a circumstance that in every way, sounds like a movie.

I know you're speaking for most instances, but I also feel as though sweeping statements like that don't give the guys who really just want to be friends, a chance because of the stigma attached to males who approach females in classes.

Also, why is no one bringing up girls approaching guys in class? We do it all the time, and if anything we're worse because we don't have the label that guys do, and people assume we don't have cruel intentions, so we can just mess around with a guy's head. It's so bad

Nobody on this site has ANY sort of game like what you're describing... ;P