I have seen lots of beautiful girls on campus. A lot. Sometimes they dress so sexy that I dont even have confidence to approach them. My question is what is the successful percentage do you think if a guy ask phone numbers from one of those girls?
10-16-2013 at 08:53 PM
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Ask with your wallet, and your successful percentage will be 100%
Zero percent if you're going to be a bitch about it. Either do it and accept defeat if need be, or wallow in self pity in the back of a comic book store somewhere.
Ug, please don't wander around campus asking for numbers...I can assure you the response will be an astounding no all around. This is not the approach you take if looking for a relationship, most girls do not appreciate a stranger walking up and asking for a number. I suggest you stop looking for a relationship so much. If you don't you may find yourself in one you shouldn't be, and will regret it.
10-17-2013 at 07:20 AM
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Ug, please don't wander around campus asking for numbers...I can assure you the response will be an astounding no all around. This is not the approach you take if looking for a relationship, most girls do not appreciate a stranger walking up and asking for a number. I suggest you stop looking for a relationship so much. If you don't you may find yourself in one you shouldn't be, and will regret it.
Nonsense. There is about a 60% success rate depending on how you approach and considering most girls will be too polite to say no. 45% if you approach a group rather than a single individual.
10-17-2013 at 07:48 AM
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Nonsense. There is about a 60% success rate depending on how you approach and considering most girls will be too polite to say no. 45% if you approach a group rather than a single individual.
Well I am eager to know how his experiment goes.
I think this is just a difference of opinion at its core. I don't believe in dating by walking up to a stranger and asking them out, and you're probably way more likely of finding someone your not suited with. I believe the best way to be in a good relationship is to become friends with someone and really get to know them, then eventually exploring options of being "together". If you can't be friends with someone, there's no way a relationship will work in the long run.
I think this is just a difference of opinion at its core. I don't believe in dating by walking up to a stranger and asking them out, and you're probably way more likely of finding someone your not suited with. I believe the best way to be in a good relationship is to become friends with someone and really get to know them, then eventually exploring options of being "together". If you can't be friends with someone, there's no way a relationship will work in the long run.
Except your mom, everyone you know was essentially a stranger at one point. Communication was invented so that strangers could get to know and understand each other. Cell phones were invented so that sexy girls would know i was interested...riiight?
10-17-2013 at 08:32 AM
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Except your mom, everyone you know was essentially a stranger at one point. Communication was invented so that strangers could get to know and understand each other. Cell phones were invented so that sexy girls would know i was interested...riiight?
Well two things:
1) My parents weren't best friends before they were in a relationship, they met and just sort of started dating...and I can see how they turned out...they aren't well matched for the long-term.
2) I think there is a distinct difference between walking up to strangers on campus and asking for their numbers, and meeting new people from friend's networks and getting to know them better.
10-17-2013 at 09:57 AM
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speaking as a girl i don't like giving out my number to strangers and i will say so but if you talk to me even just a few times before (as a friend) i have no problem giving it to you. i don't like being hit on when i'm just trying to get to class and you'll probably annoy more girls if you stop them this way. of course you may have some success this way regardless because girls will feel like they can't say no, but they will probably not appreciate it and dislike you from the start.
As long as you're not a crazy psychopath/rapist/murderer/creep and you get to know the girl a little first, I'm sure most girls would be happy to give out their numbers. Let's face it, a guy asking for your number means you have sex appeal.
10-17-2013 at 11:40 PM
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Start with lighter girls, then proceed to heavier ones as progression to gain strength and consequently muscle mass.
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bro getting a girl's number is NOTHING compared to what comes after
10-18-2013 at 12:15 PM
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Coming from a girl as well...a girl you ask will probably feel bad if they say no...so you've got her number...now what??!! If it was me, I wouldn't respond because we've never talked in person - you have to show her that ur into her which means not over the phone
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