hey
I need some advice to help out my friend. So, my friend has been with a guy for 1.5 years and she always felt like she was the third wheel. She kept telling her boyfriend but nothing was done to fix it and she was tired if giving chances. There breakup didn't go too well and she felt that she hasn't had proper closure for some time now. He has moved on in less than a month and is dating that same girl that my friend felt like she was the third wheel to. So, she did decide to meet with her ex in the hopes that they can talk it out maturely. But, he kisses her on her cheeks a couple of times and acted like he would when they dated back then. This seems unfair to her because he is with another girl, but yet doing these things to my friend. What is this suppose to mean?

from the sounds of it he seems like a playa. she should get outta there asap. nice job not postin to spotted btw

It seems very unfair to both girls especially my friend. The girl he is with thinks he is being modest and moved on from my friend and talks highly of herself, little to know what is going on behind her back. What is his intention for doing this though, is it because he still misses my friend or what?

Just move on clearly doesn't show what is needed for a good relationship

Don't over-think this, this guy isn't worth your trouble. Your friend told him the other girl was a problem, and he didn't care, so they broke up, and now he's with the other girl. It's possible he still has feelings for your friend, but HIS feelings shouldn't matter to your friend at this point, since this guy is clearly not willing/able to commit to her.

Moving on can be incredibly difficult, but it's nothing compared to going through this same cycle over and over again for the same guy (or same type of guy).

The best way to approach this is to evaluate your friend's worth. The dating market is not easy, if she has no real values to offer then maybe she should let her ex settle with her. Unless you give more information about your friend, its hard to give honest advice. Caused just maybe, your friend is a 1 and her ex is a 10 which is normally out of her reach, if she has the potential to secure the 10 then she should go for it.

He's a two-timer, or maybe even a three-timer.

It sounds like this quite is just a player. He isn't considerate of your friend's feelings, he's just looking out for his own interests. Closure aside, your friend should just let this one go. He isn't good for her, she needs to be the bigger person and move on.