Having sex if you are not in love....
10-12-2010 at 01:47 PM
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Seriously on topic:
Sex without love is fine as long as both people are aware that there is no love. I think it's pretty bad if you're having sex with someone you feel nothing for if they are in love with you. It's a really crappy way to take advantage of someone. Also if you are in a relationship with this person you have no love for... well that's just a bad situation right there.
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10-12-2010 at 02:06 PM
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One problem is that guys are naturally possessive. We've evolved to want to control and dominate the women we breed with to ensure our seed gets passed on over the competition. So a lot of douche bags use "love" as a bear trap or a way to justify their feelings of jealousy and need for control. You don't see it as much in university because it's usually common among idiots.
The other problem: girls, don't get me wrong many of you can have loveless sex, tend to ruin a good friends with benefits scenario with love. Ditto as above; most smart girls don't have this problem.
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10-12-2010 at 02:45 PM
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10-12-2010 at 03:09 PM
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10-12-2010 at 03:13 PM
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10-12-2010 at 04:41 PM
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Originally Posted by zombiejesus
One problem is that guys are naturally possessive. We've evolved to want to control and dominate the women we breed with to ensure our seed gets passed on over the competition. So a lot of douche bags use "love" as a bear trap or a way to justify their feelings of jealousy and need for control. You don't see it as much in university because it's usually common among idiots.
The other problem: girls, don't get me wrong many of you can have loveless sex, tend to ruin a good friends with benefits scenario with love. Ditto as above; most smart girls don't have this problem.
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Most smart girls aren't stupid enough to have sex with anybody. If they're SMART, they think about it first. And I don't mean think as in two minutes before the sex occurs. 
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10-12-2010 at 04:51 PM
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Most smart girls aren't stupid enough to have sex with anybody. If they're SMART, they think about it first. And I don't mean think as in two minutes before the sex occurs. |
So which is it? Smart girls don't have sex or smart girls think about sex before having sex?
Either way, both stupid comments.
Congrats though, can't say I've ever heard that before though. "If you have sex, you're dumb."
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10-12-2010 at 05:20 PM
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You guys are F***ed 
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10-12-2010 at 05:30 PM
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You guys are F * * *ed
I may have double posted, but that's only cuz I can't see my first reply...and I wanted you guys to know I truly meant it. 
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10-12-2010 at 06:47 PM
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Personally, nay. I wouldn't do it without being in love with the person.
But for everyone else, yay. I don't care what other people do in the bedroom
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10-12-2010 at 07:07 PM
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You usually won't see a quality girl partaking in loveless sex.
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10-12-2010 at 07:34 PM
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I'm sooooo confused
age/2 + 7 = you're not my type
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That's the "acceptable dating" formula.
Basically, it's so you don't date anyone who is too young for you.
If you use me as an example, 25/2 + 7 = 19.5. Apparently that means I could date a 19.5 year old and it wouldn't be creepy.
I would say otherwise.
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10-12-2010 at 08:08 PM
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You usually won't see a quality girl partaking in loveless sex.
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There you go. Thanks, Souldier. That's what I meant; not just a girl who's smart, but a girl with morals isn't likely to have sex with a guy whom she is not in love with. I ddn't mean that you have to be dumb to have sex. That's twisting my words around.
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10-12-2010 at 08:08 PM
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Yay. and by the time you realize youre in love, i think hell have moved on to "love" someone else
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10-12-2010 at 08:19 PM
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Keep the discussion on topic please. There have been enough post deletions and such.
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