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Originally Posted by golden1
yes i've heard this from my own family. I think for Polish parents it's not so much the race as it is the culture that's important. There is a distinction. My parents would be happiest if their son-in-law was not only caucasian but Polish specifically. I think preserving culture is really important for parents who's kids are first generation canadians because there is some safety for them to know that their grandkids wont lose their Polish identity. As to what my own opinion is.. I dont know. I think in Canada it is definitely easier for interracial couples to work out.
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At first, my mom also believed that I should marry a Saudi/Sudanese guy in order to preserve our culture but I've been dating my Lebanese white boyfriend for three years and my mom is completely fine with it now. She's actually pretty much in love with him and his aspirations and has changed her view on interracial dating and some cultures. But she likes to embarrass me and point that out that our babies will be beautiful and white >.> I also don't seem to be getting much criticism from other individual for our obvious skin tone differences because my boyfriend looks more German than Lebanese and I look like an anomaly that people can't seem to figure out.
Canada's much more lenient and understanding when it comes to interracial dating, if I went to Saudi with my boyfriend, they would look down upon us even though he's also Muslim and speak Arabic. I've even had some instances like the video with an old lady telling me I should "stick to my own kind" and that it's disgraceful to be together, assuming he was white and not my religion. Sometimes you can't change people's opinions, they've grown with it and won't change.