I don't know if anyone else has received this e-mail inviting you to join the facebook group so if you haven't, here's the description of the group!

"Vibrators, Erotic Oils, Massage Products, Books and More! Come find something special for Valentine's or for no reason at all other than to add a little spice to your life!

FREE @ 1280

-Demonstrations and Testing of Products
-Private Purchasing Area"

(Edit: Here's the link: http://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=2913757 68435)


Now, those who frequent MI would know that I have some pretty pro-promiscuity values/beliefs... but even THIS makes ME uncomfortable. It's just... strange.

I mean, demonstrations? Of what? Vibrators? Are you gonna show me how to use it or something?

Call me old fashioned, but I generally believe that what happens in the bedroom, stays in the bedroom... and I certainly wouldn't want any of my colleagues unearthing some of fantasies. O_O

What are your thoughts on this?

You have "pro-promiscuity values/beliefs"? Seems like this Fantasia party is catered towards people who are exactly like you.

Originally Posted by Souldier

You have "pro-promiscuity values/beliefs"? Seems like this Fantasia party is catered towards people who are exactly like you.

Wow dude that was just COMPLETELY unnecessary... Its like you are insecure, and decide to bash others because you are ashamed of it...

Originally Posted by Knirps

Wow dude that was just COMPLETELY unnecessary... Its like you are insecure, and decide to bash others because you are ashamed of it...

How am I insecure exactly? She said she was pro-promiscuity meaning approving of having casual sex with a large amount of men

I agree that that was definitely uncalled for.

slut
–noun 1. a dirty, slovenly woman. 2. an immoral or dissolute woman; prostitute.
Just because she is cool with casual sex does not mean she is dirty, nor a prostitute or immoral.
Immoral, maybe, but on who's terms?


And yeah I find this "party" pretty strange too. Like what goes on? Is it just a club night where the usual drunken peeps grind up all on each other then centre stage there are people using *****s and stuff? I don't get it.

Originally Posted by TTHX

I agree that that was definitely uncalled for.

slut
–noun 1. a dirty, slovenly woman. 2. an immoral or dissolute woman; prostitute.
Just because she is cool with casual sex does not mean she is dirty, nor a prostitute or immoral.
Immoral, maybe, but on who's terms?


And yeah I find this "party" pretty strange too. Like what goes on? Is it just a club night where the usual drunken peeps grind up all on each other then centre stage there are people using *****s and stuff? I don't get it.

From Merriam Webster:
slut
1 chiefly British : a slovenly woman
2 a : a promiscuous woman; especially : prostitute
A reputable dictionairy says a slut is a promiscuous woman, and the OP has admitted she is pro-promiscuity.

Originally Posted by Souldier

From Merriam Webster:
slut
1 chiefly British : a slovenly woman
2 a : a promiscuous woman; especially : prostitute
A reputable dictionairy says a slut is a promiscuous woman, and the OP has admitted she is pro-promiscuity.

Same dictionary:

Main Entry: pro·mis·cu·ous
Pronunciation: \prə-ˈmis-kyə-wəs\
Function: adjective
Etymology: Latin promiscuus, from pro- forth + miscēre to mix — more at pro-, mix
Date: 1601
1 : composed of all sorts of persons or things
2 : not restricted to one class, sort, or person : indiscriminate <education…cheapene d through the promiscuous distribution of diplomas — Norman Cousins>
3 : not restricted to one sexual partner

So, as per the dictionary, anyone whos been with more than one person is a slut. I'm a slut, you're a slut, everyones a slut slut.

can we stop the name calling? I haven't been in grade school for almost 20 years, and don't plan on going back.

Originally Posted by reeves

Same dictionary:

Main Entry: pro·mis·cu·ous
Pronunciation: \prə-ˈmis-kyə-wəs\
Function: adjective
Etymology: Latin promiscuus, from pro- forth + miscēre to mix — more at pro-, mix
Date: 1601
1 : composed of all sorts of persons or things
2 : not restricted to one class, sort, or person : indiscriminate <education…cheapene d through the promiscuous distribution of diplomas — Norman Cousins>
3 : not restricted to one sexual partner

So, as per the dictionary, anyone whos been with more than one person is a slut. I'm a slut, you're a slut, everyones a slut slut.

can we stop the name calling? I haven't been in grade school for almost 20 years, and don't plan on going back.

You posting that definition doesn't help anyone since what exactly do you think the OP means by being "pro-promiscuous"? She clearly doesn't mean just having sex with more than one person, she means she's in favor of being with many sexual partners.

Originally Posted by Souldier

You posting that definition doesn't help anyone since what exactly do you think the OP means by being "pro-promiscuous"? She clearly doesn't mean just having sex with more than one person, she means she's in favor of being with many sexual partners.

Me posting that was to further clarify the dictionary definition of slut, since someone felt it necessary to bring up. By the book, any girl that's been with more than one guy is one. And that would make me a he-slut/manwhore/other male term for slut.

I know what she means by it, as Im a friend of hers away from these forums, and we talk about shit, including stuff like this. I wont speak for her, but Im pretty sure she said that in reference to previous posts she's made, speaking about her stance on (commited) relationships in general.

Regardless of anyones stance on promiscuity, the thread is about something else. It was made about promiscuity by the first response.

Lol u bitches better lighten up and enjoy the lovely thread provided by Cheri.

And yes, I'm all up for some dude showing me the benefits of the butt-buster, I wud lul hard.
In all seriousness I think Cheri should go.

Originally Posted by TTHX

And yeah I find this "party" pretty strange too. Like what goes on? Is it just a club night where the usual drunken peeps grind up all on each other then centre stage there are people using *****s and stuff? I don't get it.

Oh, ew, haha, that makes me even more uncomfortable. XDD
Nah, I think it's literally like, an information thing... Like maybe there are people who come from different companies to show you their products and demonstrate them and then you can purchase them there. Still though, I feel uncomfortable with a large group of people being around me when I'm buying a sex toy. O_O I keep that shit private, rofl.

@Souldier: A key part to that sentence was the beginning, where I said "Those who frequent MI." I wouldn't exactly call you a frequent MacInsider where you've read a large number of posts throughout time by different people, thus resulting in you learning their views. I urge you to read through my posts and maybe try and understand what I meant by that, that way you don't look like such a big tool next time.

If I could attend the Fantasia Party I would. And I definately would not classify myself as "promiscuous". I think the whole thing would be wildly entertaining. You know, go with your gal pals...giggle uncontrolably...maybe buy something. There is absolutely nothing wrong with buying this kinda stuff. And heck! What's wrong with buying something fun like massage oil for you and your special someone.

And no they won't be showing you how to use a vibrator...maybe how it turns on and off....maybe pass around items to see them...and in the case ofoils or w/e...smell them?

Could be fun? :o

Originally Posted by taylojl

If I could attend the Fantasia Party I would. And I definately would not classify myself as "promiscuous". I think the whole thing would be wildly entertaining. You know, go with your gal pals...giggle uncontrolably...maybe buy something. There is absolutely nothing wrong with buying this kinda stuff. And heck! What's wrong with buying something fun like massage oil for you and your special someone.

And no they won't be showing you how to use a vibrator...maybe how it turns on and off....maybe pass around items to see them...and in the case ofoils or w/e...smell them?

Could be fun? :o

Yea, good points. I could imagine going for shits and giggles but I would still personally be too uncomfortable to buy a legit sex toy (like a vibrator, not just massage oil).

I just think that's so awkward, lol.

Originally Posted by lawleypop

Yea, good points. I could imagine going for shits and giggles but I would still personally be too uncomfortable to buy a legit sex toy (like a vibrator, not just massage oil).

I just think that's so awkward, lol.

Awkward is being in a sex shop, hearing your father explain to your mother who John Holmes was.

Long story, don't ask. Not nearly as bad as it sounds.

Originally Posted by reeves

Awkward is being in a sex shop, hearing your father explain to your mother who John Holmes was.

Long story, don't ask. Not nearly as bad as it sounds.

I think the awkward part about that is being in a sex shop with your parents. XD