Eh I remember back in high school I had a really cute girl that liked me. We got to know each other and I finally asked her out. Now everybody knew we were together and I couldn't believe I had a cute girl to myself. I freaked out and didn't know what exactly to do in the relationship for the next couple weeks.
She thought I was weird and we called it quits. We rarely spoke since. I felt relieved and yet want to hit my head against the wall. She's freaking gorgeous as we speak but I got myself a girlfriend of nearly two years so I am not interested.
So in a way, I agree with the the article.