11-04-2010 at 11:06 PM
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do girls like shy guys?
Well im not really really shy in social settings, but I just prefer not to talk much.
My problem is I can't really tell a girl that I like her.
Im just curious, do girls prefer talkative guys over shy guys?
by talkative i mean outgoing
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11-04-2010 at 11:11 PM
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Well all girls don't like the same things in guys so no, not all guys will prefer shy or talkative guys.
Also I don't think many people would have anything against shy people technically but its kind of hard to get to know them or know they might be interested if they can't even tell you. I'm sure you can see why this is a problem.
I'm shy myself so I can totally understand shy guys but it becomes difficult when there's chemistry there and no one can get up the courage to just say something about it. I don't prefer talkative guys per se but it sure makes it a lot easier if I know they like me back, rejection pretty much sucks.
So in short I'm sure some girls would like you if you opened up a bit and gave them a chance to. They need to know you're at least interested.
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11-04-2010 at 11:12 PM
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you can't just group the entire female species together and expect a pattern in your answers. It just wont happen.
Personally, shy or not, I like it when guys get to the point.
If you like me, you can just go ahead and say it. It's brave, and most people appreciate it.
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11-04-2010 at 11:12 PM
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girls prefer shy guys so later the woman can rule in the house and take all your money and tell u what to do
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11-04-2010 at 11:12 PM
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doesn't it all come down to the each girls own preference? they all have their own preferences but in general from what my girl friends tell me they prefer a fun, talkative guy who can keep things exciting and fun. But there are a few girls that prefer shy guys but not many really
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11-04-2010 at 11:15 PM
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ok well there were many times when girls approach me first and try to be close, but i just didnt know what to do from there. So now most of them think im arrogant..
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11-04-2010 at 11:16 PM
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Shy girls are awesome.
I'd choose them over extremely attractive girls.
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11-04-2010 at 11:17 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by dhgn
ok well there were many times when girls approach me first and try to be close, but i just didnt know what to do from there. So now most of them think im arrogant..
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...well yea you kinda got to put in the effort as well relationship's are supposed to be a 50%-50% sorta deal you no? you gotta just talk to em and get to know em and let things unfold from there on
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11-04-2010 at 11:19 PM
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Shy girls are awesome.
I'd choose them over extremely attractive girls.
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This I also agree.
I personally prefer shy girls regardless of their physical attraction.
But not extremely shy to a point where she seems to have a social problem.
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11-04-2010 at 11:19 PM
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I would say that more girls would prefer a talkative guy, but there are still plenty who would love a shy person. Every person on this planet is unique and has their own sets of likes/dislikes. However, your opening post sounds like you have a particular girl in mind. Rather than trying to figure out the likelihood of her liking a shy guy by representative statistics of the MI opinions, I suggest that you try to get to know her as friends first. The friends stage works well for shy guys, you get to know her better, which increases the likelihood of a successful relationship, and you get more comfortable with her presence and it'll be easier for you to talk to her and thus ask her out.
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11-04-2010 at 11:22 PM
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I abhor shy people.
If I wanted to talk to myself, I would.
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11-04-2010 at 11:23 PM
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...well yea you kinda got to put in the effort as well relationship's are supposed to be a 50%-50% sorta deal you no? you gotta just talk to em and get to know em and let things unfold from there on
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i guess thats the problem, but i guess its hard to let her know that i like her
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11-04-2010 at 11:23 PM
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11-05-2010 at 12:36 AM
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I love shy guys!
Oh... you mean real people. Well, in general, introverted people are more attracted to other introverts, while extroverted people are more attracted to other extroverts. But... it's kind of hard to let someone know that you're interested if you don't tell them or at least show signs of interest.
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11-05-2010 at 12:41 AM
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^ Epic win.
I'm a pretty outgoing, talkative person but if I run into a girl I'm suddenly really interested in, I'm screwed.
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