Getting my Girlfriend a Graduation Gift
 
 
		 	
	 
 
	
	
		
	
		
	
				
			
			 
			05-14-2010 at 06:43 PM
			
						
		 | 
		
			 
			
			#1
			
 | 
	
 
	| 
			
			
 
 Senior Member 
			
		
	
		
				
				
				
				Join Date: Aug 2007 
				
		
			Posts: 123
		 
 
	
Thanked: 
		
			
				6 Times
			
		
	 
 
Liked: 
		
			
				27 Times
			
		
	  
				
								
		
			 
 
 
  
	 | 
	
	
		
			
			 
				Getting my Girlfriend a Graduation Gift
			 
			
		
		
		Hey, 
  
my girlfriend graduates june 10, and i need to get her a gift. 
There's a camera she wants I was thinking about getting, but should I get her jewellery or something along those lines? What's the standard convention here? 
		
	
		
		
		
		
		
  
	 | 
 
 
	 
	
		 	
	 
 
	
	
		
	
		
	
				
			
			 
			05-14-2010 at 06:44 PM
			
						
		 | 
		
			 
			
			#2
			
 | 
	
 
	| 
			
			
 
 Member 
			
		
	
		
				
				
				
				Join Date: Aug 2008 
				
		
			Posts: 3
		 
 
	
Thanked: 
		
			
				0 Times
			
		
	 
 
Liked: 
		
			
				0 Times
			
		
	  
				
								
		
			 
 
 
  
	 | 
	
	
		
		
		 Jewelry is always nice, but if she wants the camera get her that instead!  
That's more than enough of a generous gift! 
Good luck! 
		
	
		
		
		
		
		
  
	 | 
 
 
	 
	
		 	
	 
 
	
	
		
	
		
	
				
			
			 
			05-14-2010 at 06:47 PM
			
						
		 | 
		
			 
			
			#3
			
 | 
	
 
	| 
			
			
 
 Moderator 
			
		
 
	
		
				
				
				
				Join Date: May 2009 
				
		
			Posts: 2,509
		 
 
	
Thanked: 
		
			
				312 Times
			
		
	 
 
Liked: 
		
			
				633 Times
			
		
	  
				
								
		
			 
 
 
  
	 | 
	
	
		
		
		 I'm not sure about convention but I'd recommend getting something that's meaningful. Most people think that must mean something homemade, for instance. But it could be jewellery from a specific store that she's mentioned before or a charm bracelet if she enjoys those types of jewellery; they're excellent in that they are elegant yet meaningful, personal and thoughtful. If she's got her heart set on a camera, then go with that.  I'd be wary about gifting electronics though just because of their incredibly short shelf life but  all in all, it's the thought that counts. The gesture never has to be big, just considerate. If you're worried about the gift being "big" enough, you could always accompany it with chocolates and flowers. 
		
	
		
		
		
		
			
				__________________ 
				 
Emma Ali 
Honours Life Sciences 
			 
		
		
		
		
  
	 | 
 
 
	 
	
		 	
	 
 
	
	
		
	
		
	
				
			
			 
			05-14-2010 at 06:50 PM
			
						
		 | 
		
			 
			
			#4
			
 | 
	
 
	| 
			
			
 
 Elite Member 
			
		
	
		
				
				
				
				Join Date: Aug 2008 
				
		
			Posts: 5,014
		 
 
	
Thanked: 
		
			
				406 Times
			
		
	 
 
Liked: 
		
			
				2,312 Times
			
		
	  
				
								
		
			 
 
 
  
	 | 
	
	
		
		
		 Um... what does she like? List her interests? Whats your price range? Etc 
 
The camera seems like a good idea; especially if shes specifically made it clear its something she wants. 
		
	
		
		
		
		
		
  
	 | 
 
 
	 
	
		 	
	 
 
	
	
		
	
		
	
				
			
			 
			05-14-2010 at 07:15 PM
			
						
		 | 
		
			 
			
			#5
			
 | 
	
 
	| 
			
			
 
 MacInsiders VP 
			
		
 
	
		
				
				
				
				Join Date: Jul 2007 
				
		
			Posts: 7,615
		 
 
	
Thanked: 
		
			
				912 Times
			
		
	 
 
Liked: 
		
			
				506 Times
			
		
	  
				
								
		
			 
 
 
  
	 | 
	
	
		
		
		 There is no "standard", it all depends on what is wanted, what would be more meaningful, and your budget.   
 
When my bf graduated I bought him a book on the history of Lego as well as a bunch of other, smaller things.  If I could have afforded it, I would have bought him the camera lens he wanted ($800). 
		
	
		
		
		
		
			
				__________________ 
				McMaster Combined Honours Cultural Studies & Critical Theory and Anthropology: 2008 
 McMaster Honours English with a minor in Indigenous Studies: 2010 
 Carleton University Masters of Arts in Canadian Studies: 2012 (expected) 
 
We are people of this generation, bred in at  least modest comfort, housed in universities, looking uncomfortably into  the world we inherit. -- Port Huron Statement 
 
 
    
			 
		
		
		
		
  
	 | 
 
 
	 
	
		 	
	 
 
	
	
		
	
		
	
				
			
			 
			05-14-2010 at 08:05 PM
			
						
		 | 
		
			 
			
			#6
			
 | 
	
 
	| 
			
			
 
 Member 
			
		
	
		
				
				
				
				Join Date: Aug 2007 
				
		
			Posts: 67
		 
 
	
Thanked: 
		
			
				19 Times
			
		
	 
 
Liked: 
		
			
				8 Times
			
		
	  
				
								
		
			 
 
 
  
	 | 
	
	
		
		
		I'm surprised nobody's suggested this yet:  
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WhwbxEfy7fg 
		
	
		
		
		
		
		
		
						  
				
				Last edited by scott000 : 05-14-2010 at 08:05 PM.
				Reason: fixed link
				
			
		
		
  
	 | 
 
 
	 
	
		 	
	 
 
	
	
		
	
		
	
				
			
			 
			05-14-2010 at 11:45 PM
			
						
		 | 
		
			 
			
			#7
			
 | 
	
 
	| 
			
			
 
 Account Disabled by User 
			
		
	
		
				
				
				
				Join Date: Jul 2009 
				
		
			Posts: 341
		 
 
	
Thanked: 
		
			
				12 Times
			
		
	 
 
Liked: 
		
			
				36 Times
			
		
	  
				
								
		
			 
 
 
  
	 | 
	
	
		
		
		 get her a cook book and an apron hahaha 
		
	
		
		
		
		
		
  
	 | 
 
 
	 
	
		 	
	 
 
	
	
		
	
		
	
				
			
			 
			05-15-2010 at 01:19 AM
			
						
		 | 
		
			 
			
			#8
			
 | 
	
 
	| 
			
			
 
 Splice onto Arcane 
			
		
	
		
				
				
				
				Join Date: Apr 2009 
				
		
			Posts: 1,030
		 
 
	
Thanked: 
		
			
				122 Times
			
		
	 
 
Liked: 
		
			
				974 Times
			
		
	  
				
								
		
			 
 
 
  
	 | 
	
	
		
		
		 Despite MI being a pretty great community, I have to say that one shouldn't really turn to a forum for situations like these since we most likely know nothing of the girl in question. 
 
It's like asking a random guy on the street what to have for lunch, and even that might not be such a great analogy since it's possible the guy has tried a few things-- 
 
You know, I think I'll stop talking before this gets weird. 
 
But yeah, at the very least, maybe provide details like how passionate she is about the camera, previous conversations or details of what she might think of jewelry ("Sweet, a shiny necklace!" or "****, does this mean I'm tied to this guy for the long-term.") 
 
Also, graduating high school or university? I think at your (our) age, dating someone of either 2-3 older/younger is within reason. 
		
	
		
		
		
		
			
				__________________ 
				 
			 
		
		
		
		
  
	 | 
 
 
	 
	
		 	
	 
 
	
	
		
	
		
	
				
			
			 
			05-15-2010 at 01:53 AM
			
						
		 | 
		
			 
			
			#9
			
 | 
	
 
	| 
			
			
 
 Trolling ain't easy 
			
		
	
		
				
				
				
				Join Date: Jul 2008 
				
		
			Posts: 3,190
		 
 
	
Thanked: 
		
			
				499 Times
			
		
	 
 
Liked: 
		
			
				1,642 Times
			
		
	  
				
								
		
			 
 
 
  
	 | 
	
	
		
		
		Make her a really crappy card with photoshop or a mediocre quality mug out of clay. If she gives the slightest hint at not liking it, start hyperventilating and rock back and forth on the floor in a fetal position until she says she was only joking and that it's actually great. Good way to save money   .  
		
	
		
		
		
		
			
				__________________ 
				Dillon Dixon 
Alumni 
Software Engineering and Embedded Systems 
			 
		
		
		
		
		
						  
				
				Last edited by Ownaginatios : 05-15-2010 at 01:56 AM.
				
				
			
		
		
  
	 | 
 
 
	 
	
		 	
	 
 
	
	
		
	
		
	
				
			
			 
			05-15-2010 at 03:20 AM
			
						
		 | 
		
			 
			
			#10
			
 | 
	
 
	| 
			
			
 
 Zetsubou Sensei 
			
		
	
		
				
				
				
				Join Date: Sep 2008 
				
		
			Posts: 382
		 
 
	
Thanked: 
		
			
				9 Times
			
		
	 
 
Liked: 
		
			
				71 Times
			
		
	  
				
								
		
			 
 
 
  
	 | 
	
	
		
		
		
	Quote: 
	
	
		
			
				
					Originally Posted by  Ownaginatios
					 
				 
				Make her a really crappy card with photoshop or a mediocre quality mug out of clay. If she gives the slightest hint at not liking it, start hyperventilating and rock back and forth on the floor in a fetal position until she says she was only joking and that it's actually great. Good way to save money   .  
			
		 | 
	 
	 
 And if they happen to be in this point in the relationship, this will qualify as a "no sex for you tonight" moment =p  
		
	
		
		
		
		
			
				__________________ 
				 *Click for Youtube*  
			 
		
		
		
		
  
	 | 
 
 
	 
	
		 	
	 
 
	
	
		
	
		
	
				
			
			 
			05-15-2010 at 08:34 AM
			
						
		 | 
		
			 
			
			#11
			
 | 
	
 
	| 
			
			
 
 Elite Member 
			
		
	
		
				
				
				
				Join Date: Mar 2010 
				
		
			Posts: 370
		 
 
	
Thanked: 
		
			
				33 Times
			
		
	 
 
Liked: 
		
			
				173 Times
			
		
	  
				
								
		
			 
 
 
  
	 | 
	
	
		
		
		
	Quote: 
	
	
		
			
				
					Originally Posted by  scott000
					 
				 
				
			
		 | 
	 
	 
 Now I know what I want for my graduation gift  
		
	
		
		
		
		
		
  
	 | 
 
 
	 
	
		 	
	 
 
	
	
		
	
		
	
				
			
			 
			05-15-2010 at 09:48 AM
			
						
		 | 
		
			 
			
			#12
			
 | 
	
 
	| 
			
			
 
 Elite Member 
			
		
	
		
				
				
				
				Join Date: Jul 2009 
				
		
			Posts: 1,592
		 
 
	
Thanked: 
		
			
				219 Times
			
		
	 
 
Liked: 
		
			
				598 Times
			
		
	  
				
								
		
			 
 
 
  
	 | 
	
	
		
		
		
	Quote: 
	
	
		
			
				
					Originally Posted by  Entropy
					 
				 
				 
Also, graduating high school or university? 
			
		 | 
	 
	 
 I think its safe to assume it's university, since the grad date is june 10th. High school doesn't even finish until the end of the month.  
		
	
		
		
		
		
			
				__________________ 
				Ben Taunton 
Life Science IV 
McMaster University 
			 
		
		
		
		
  
	 | 
 
 
	 
	
		 	
	 
 
	
	
		
	
		
	
				
			
			 
			05-16-2010 at 02:59 PM
			
						
		 | 
		
			 
			
			#13
			
 | 
	
 
	| 
			
			
 
 Senior Member 
			
		
	
		
				
				
				
				Join Date: Nov 2009 
				
		
			Posts: 340
		 
 
	
Thanked: 
		
			
				23 Times
			
		
	 
 
Liked: 
		
			
				137 Times
			
		
	  
				
								
		
			 
 
 
  
	 | 
	
	
		
		
		
	Quote: 
	
	
		
			
				
					Originally Posted by  scott000
					 
				 
				
			
		 | 
	 
	 
  
When I saw the name of this thread, I went to youtube, found teh video, copied the link, scrolled down and saw you beat me to it ... poop  
		
	
		
		
		
		
			
				__________________ 
				Only ignorant people really have the capacity to feel offended.
			 
		
		
		
		
  
	 | 
 
 
	 
	
		 	
	 
 
	
	
		
	
		
	
				
			
			 
			05-16-2010 at 06:05 PM
			
						
		 | 
		
			 
			
			#14
			
 | 
	
 
	| 
			
			
 
 Elite Member 
			
		
	
		
				
				
				
				Join Date: Aug 2009 
				
		
			Posts: 2,112
		 
 
	
Thanked: 
		
			
				159 Times
			
		
	 
 
Liked: 
		
			
				529 Times
			
		
	  
				
								
		
			 
 
 
  
	 | 
	
	
		
		
		I don't think there is a "standard" for graduation gifts. If you can afford the camera, I would suggest buying that. If you're tight on cash, you can check out stores like Hallmark and get her a "Class of 2010" picture frame or stuffed toy or something.   
 
There are graduation gifts at Titles with Mac logos and things like that, but they are very expensive. It's so much cheaper to get a generic grad gift from the mall.  
		
	
		
		
		
		
		
  
	 | 
 
 
	 
	
		 	
	 
 
	
	
		
	
		
	
				
			
			 
			05-16-2010 at 09:59 PM
			
						
		 | 
		
			 
			
			#15
			
 | 
	
 
	| 
			
			
 
 Elite Member 
			
		
	
		
				
				
				
				Join Date: Sep 2007 
				
		
			Posts: 402
		 
 
	
Thanked: 
		
			
				47 Times
			
		
	 
 
Liked: 
		
			
				36 Times
			
		
	  
				
								
		
			 
 
 
  
	 | 
	
	
		
		
		 Tell her she's lucky to have you (you are her present). 
		
	
		
		
		
		
		
  
	 | 
 
 
	 
	
		 	
	 
 
  
	
		
	| Thread Tools | 
	Search this Thread | 
 
	| 
	
	
	
	
	
	 | 
	
	
	
	
	
	
	
	 | 
	
 
 
	
		 
	
		 
		Posting Rules
	 | 
 
	
		
		You may not post new threads 
		You may not post replies 
		You may not post attachments 
		You may not edit your posts 
		 
		
		
		
		
		HTML code is Off 
		
	  | 
 
   
	 | 
	
		
	 | 
 
 
		 	
	 
 
 
 McMaster University News and Information, Student-run Community, with topics ranging from Student Life, Advice, News, Events, and General Help.
 
Notice: The views and opinions expressed in this page are strictly those of the student(s) who authored the content. The contents of this page have not been reviewed or approved by McMaster University or the MSU (McMaster Students Union). Being a student-run community, all articles and discussion posts on MacInsiders are unofficial and it is therefore always recommended that you visit the official McMaster website for the most accurate up-to-date information. 
 
 |     |