Originally Posted by justinsftw

The V immediately made me think of him: ...

HAHAHAHA.
Oh god, not that v.

Originally Posted by lawleypop

Here's the list:

Hair, eyes, smile (perfect teeth please), voice, arms, hands, and the v.

More extensive/pickier:

hair, eyes, adam's apple, perfect teeth, cocky half smile, voice, biceps, triceps, abs, FOREARMS, the v, hands, and good feet (I'm not saying I like feet, I'm just saying I hate gross feet).

But the top 7 are key.

On topic: I don't date.

What do you mean when you say you don't date? Are you saying you've never been asked out?

Originally Posted by Souldier

What do you mean when you say you don't date? Are you saying you've never been asked out?

I was just assuming she was saying she likes to ****, but in nicer words.






On topic: Never been on a proper date (dinner, movies, cliche stuff, etc) but they've all generally gone well, except when it just suddenly started pouring down raining.

Originally Posted by Deegs14

Can't have one if you've never been on a date before!!!!!!!





(sigh)

Can I ask what constitutes as a date? Is hanging out together at school/at home a date? Or does it have to in someplace like a restuarant/the movies/a park? I feel so weird asking this, but I feel like it maybe means different things for everyone.

Originally Posted by Souldier

What do you mean when you say you don't date? Are you saying you've never been asked out?

I get asked out pretty often (especially by older men, lolol) and the only times I've said yes is when I was too ****ing clueless to realize that they were asking me out and not just wanting to hang out.

I know what a date consists of. If a guy pays for you, you owe him. I'm not in the business of owing people.

But then when you pay for yourself, the guy gets offended/thinks you're not interested/etc.

Very complicated, this dating thing.

So I don't do it. (not like I want a relationship anyways)
(plus if I actually wanted to bang a guy that asked me out, I'd save both of our time and money and just skip to that part)

Dating requires the most adherence to social conventions out of all the things we do and even I can't be bothered. It's stepping on hot coals the entire time.

Etc. I can go on.

Okay, if you go out with a guy for dinner and he pays for you, and then you go to a movie and he pays for you, and then he buys you a stuffed animal, does that consttute as a date?

Originally Posted by lizziepizzie

Okay, if you go out with a guy for dinner and he pays for you, and then you go to a movie and he pays for you, and then he buys you a stuffed animal, does that consttute as a date?

Are you serious? Obviously.
Now you're just being a golddigger.

This is why I don't date.
You at LEAST owe him a handjob.

Seriously.

Originally Posted by lawleypop

Are you serious? Obviously.
Now you're just being a golddigger.

This is why I don't date.
You at LEAST owe him a handjob.

Seriously.

maybe chivalry isn't dead in her part of the world?

Originally Posted by lawleypop

Are you serious? Obviously.
Now you're just being a golddigger.

This is why I don't date.
You at LEAST owe him a handjob.

Seriously.

THANK YOU. That's what I thought. But apparently, no, it wasn't a date. :S Whatever.

Originally Posted by AelyaS

maybe chivalry isn't dead in her part of the world?

This has nothing to do with chivalry.

You go on a date and a guy pays for EVERYTHING, society dictates you owe him, whether it be in the form of a kiss, reciprocated feelings, a handjob, a lay, holding hands, etc.

Do you honestly think guys do this sort of thing out of the goodness of their hearts? No. They want something. Guys wouldn't take girls out left and right, blowing money they work for, if they thought for a second that there was nothing in it for them.

(Just so you don't get confused, there's a difference between a friend paying for something and being on a date and a guy paying for everything)

The fact is, especially nowadays, if you go on a date with somebody and they pay for everything and you so much as don't even give them a kiss goodnight, you're considered a money-grubbing slew.

Originally Posted by lawleypop

This has nothing to do with chivalry.

You go on a date and a guy pays for EVERYTHING, society dictates you owe him, whether it be in the form of a kiss, reciprocated feelings, a handjob, a lay, holding hands, etc.

Do you honestly think guys do this sort of thing out of the goodness of their hearts? No. They want something. Guys wouldn't take girls out left and right, blowing money they work for, if they thought for a second that there was nothing in it for them.

This is true. It's unfortunate, but it's very true. But girls have to go out with guys thinking tht there's something in it for them, too, right? Riiiight.....

Originally Posted by lawleypop

I get asked out pretty often (especially by older men, lolol) and the only times I've said yes is when I was too ****ing clueless to realize that they were asking me out and not just wanting to hang out.

Aha, for a second I forgot you were a woman Your old avatar was much better (Y) Js.

Originally Posted by lawleypop

Are you serious? Obviously.
Now you're just being a golddigger.

This is why I don't date.
You at LEAST owe him a handjob.

Seriously.

Handjobs are a scary experience. If you know nothing about the girls 'abilities', brace yourself.

I always pay for myself on a first date, and I tell the guy straight up that that's what I'm doing.

Not that I go on that many dates to begin with. But when I do, it's my money. I HATE owing people stuff, especially if I end up not liking them or having a horrible time.

Edit: I actually normally continue to pay for myself if by chance we go past a first date until I'm entirely sure that I can see the relationship lasting. But that's only happened once, and even then, I paid half of the time.

Originally Posted by MacAttk

Aha, for a second I forgot you were a woman Your old avatar was much better (Y) Js.

Hahaha.
But I like this look. ;D

There's pics on my profile, rofl.