Originally Posted by mfattal

If she is a shy girl she might not have a problem

U cant expect a shy guy to go with an outgoing girl

I pulled it off for quite a while

Originally Posted by lizziepizzie

Why are so many guys answering the original question? It's not like guys know what women REALLY want.

You are right. Not even girls know what they themselves want.

I think the more salient question is: do girls like shy girls?

Originally Posted by RyanC

I think the more salient question is: do girls like shy girls?

It has nothing to do with the gender. Male or female, shyness is disgusting.

Originally Posted by N.Cheng

Lol as a girl giving input, I'm actually going out with a guy who is considerably shy. Honestly I thought I'd be going out with someone more outgoing but it just happened. We've been dating now for over an year and it's going great. I'm way more outgoing myself and the first few dates we had I found myself talking way more than he did causing me to wonder if he was even interested or if I was talking too much. Also there are a lot of times in social situations where he doesn't feel like interacting but I want to mingle more and it feels like I'm just kinda neglecting him but as long as we talk things out and understand each others needs more it helps us to find a balance between his shyness and my 'outgoingness'.

I think there are girls who like outgoing guys and girls who like shy guys but in the end you never really know who you'll end up falling for . And I guess it's hard to start a relationship in the first place since it's hard for you to tell her how you feel but if you really want the girl I think that's motivation enough to go for it~ But yeah, in short, there are girls who like shy guys lol~ and being shy isn't the only personality trait you have there are other things that can attract girls.

I think I sound so cheesy so I'll shut up now I hope that helps.

So, how did your whole relationship get started? Did he ask you out or did you ask him out? And then did you have to initiate everything? I think that woukd SUCK. And yeah, for sure you'd be wondering if he was really interestd in you; so how did you guys get through that?

AHAH! Do guys like shy GIRLS? Or super talkative ones? Because I think that'd be annoying.

Originally Posted by lizziepizzie

AHAH! Do guys like shy GIRLS? Or super talkative ones? Because I think that'd be annoying.

Based on my guy-friends I would say the latter. But again, it also depends on a bunch of other factors.

Originally Posted by lizziepizzie

AHAH! Do guys like shy GIRLS? Or super talkative ones? Because I think that'd be annoying.

I prefer a talkative girl, not a super talkative blabbermouth ditsy one, but just a lady that starts her own conversations or better yet, rambles incessantly while I nod, perhaps give a quick response but mostly just stare at her boobies.

Haha, boobies.

Hmm. i wonder if they connect being talkative with beng brash or too out spoken. Guys are so confusing. And girls over-think things.

Originally Posted by Kendoon

I prefer a talkative girl, not a super talkative blabbermouth ditsy one, but just a lady that starts her own conversations or better yet, rambles incessantly while I nod, perhaps give a quick response but mostly just stare at her boobies.

Haha, boobies.

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Originally Posted by lizziepizzie

Hmm. i wonder if they connect being talkative with beng brash or too out spoken. Guys are so confusing. And girls over-think things.

Edit: This reply was aimed at lizziepizzie.

It's not overthinking.. We over-analyze simple things just to make our lives even more complicated DX

Originally Posted by ~*Sara*~

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It's not overthinking.. We over-analyze simple things just to make our lives even more complicated DX

Boobies?

I don't understand your response O_o

IS IT BECAUSE I SAID "PREFER" AND IN REALITY I SHOULD BE OPEN TO LOVE OF ANY SHAPE OR FORM EVEN IF ITS A FAT LOUD UGLY CHICK

Originally Posted by ~*Sara*~

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It's not overthinking.. We over-analyze simple things just to make our lives even more complicated DX

LOL Yeah, I call my bff at McGill and he tells me girls over-analyze things, and then one of my other best guy friends calls me from Guelph because he somehow knows that something's happened (don't ask me how he can tell), listens to me for 1/2 hour, tells me his perspective, and ends the whole thing (an hour later) with "sorry I can't be of more help, sweetheart, but don't overthink things." THANKS.

Originally Posted by lizziepizzie

LOL Yeah, I call my bff at McGill and he tells me girls over-analyze things, and then one of my other best guy friends calls me from Guelph because he somehow knows that something's happened (don't ask me how he can tell), listens to me for 1/2 hour, tells me his perspective, and ends the whole thing (an hour later) with "sorry I can't be of more help, sweetheart, but don't overthink things." THANKS.

I guess I'm doubly screwed, because I over analyze completely everything @[email protected]

Originally Posted by lizziepizzie

LOL Yeah, I call my bff at McGill and he tells me girls over-analyze things, and then one of my other best guy friends calls me from Guelph because he somehow knows that something's happened (don't ask me how he can tell), listens to me for 1/2 hour, tells me his perspective, and ends the whole thing (an hour later) with "sorry I can't be of more help, sweetheart, but don't overthink things." THANKS.

Haha exactly! But then again, I know a lot of my guy friends under-analyze things. SO I don;t know which is worse =/

Well, girls have to try to somehow think like guys do, so although WE over-think things, we have to TRY to UNDER-think things like guys do. Which is pointless btw, becasue by trying to under-think things we are over-thinking. And I'm pretty sure that guys don't even bother thinking what WE'RE thinking and just think for themselves! SEE, I'M OVERTHINKING!!!