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		um I don't really like to get into religions and stuff. But as much as i know...it doesn't matter if you drink, date, vegetarian/non veg, etc. As long as your doing good karma, helping others and hurting nobody, your doing godly things. But when you talk to someone and break his/her heart...your prayers will have no meaning.  
As a matter of fact, i advice your friend by all means to go ahead and date. But make sure that it's LOVE that is involved not LUST or Infatuation or that fake reputation of losing virginity early! This is the main thing, if there is love...all religions approve it. If not...then do w/e your religion says lol...I aint no prophet!
 
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		 Can we not have one discussion when we don't go off topic and discuss topics that are irrelevant to the main topic? Try to be respectful and courteous to others. Do not make offensive posts...There are people from different cultures and religions so let's respect that. Also, let's try and keep the bashing/insults to a minimum. 
		
	
		
		
		
		
		
  
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		 The title of this thread makes me think that you have a girlfriend and have misplaced her, similar to finding a remote. 
  
Anyways, he should do things he's interested in in order to meet people, right? I mean, if he's not into going to bars, and you say go to bars to meet girls, it's not a good thing.... 
		
	
		
		
		
		
		
  
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				Can we not have one discussion when we don't go off topic and discuss topics that are irrelevant to the main topic? Try to be respectful and courteous to others. Do not make offensive posts...There are people from different cultures and religions so let's respect that. Also, let's try and keep the bashing/insults to a minimum. 
			
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 That's exactly why I kept religion out of it, but someone still managed to find something wrong with my post. So fail on their part. ;D
 
OP wants to teach friend how to date in Canada, that's what I did. No religion necessary.  
		
	
		
		
		
		
			
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		 Tell your friend, next time he sees a girl he likes, just whip it out. Trust me. 
		
	
		
		
		
		
		
  
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Definitely raep her. That's key. That's why it's #1. 
			
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 Lmao. 
That's a friggin good idea.
 
I could be the female Dimitri the Lover, too. -raises eyebrow-
 
Side note: I remember watching JS when I was like 12/13 with my best friend.... we used to think it'd be so funny to get on that show. XD  
		
	
		
		
		
		
			
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				For a minute there, i thought you were telling lawley in another thread to learn some manners. If so,  [email protected]
 
On the matter of coffee/movie on dates, it's pretty damn lame. A) Coffee is evil, and B) the point of dating in the early stage is to get to know someone. not much you can find out while you shut up to watch a movie.  
			
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 I love coffee and a movie, that was mine and my boyfriend's first date! It's good to watch the movie first, then go for coffee. That way, during coffee you can get to know each other. OR if it's really awkward or something, you can just talk about the movie.    But please don't assume she will want to see some romantic comedy chick flick. Let her pick the movie - you might be surprised! Maybe ask her out around July and she will pick Iron Man 2.   
 
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		 Ok heres your step by step guide. 
 
1.Talk to a girls, talk to every girl you get an opportunity to talk to fat, thin, short, tall doesn't matter, practice makes perfect, itll build your confidence see below. 
 
2.If you do get into a conversation with a girl their favorite subject is themselves,  (I absolutely 100% guarantee this, second only to the subject of all the things that are wrong with their friends) ask one question and they will just keep going automatically, if they stop ask another question, just nod your head, scrunch up your eyebrows and say things like "Wow" "Thats amazing" "Really" (avoid talking about yourself, no one cares)  
 
3. Befriend their friends, the friends punch your ticket to ride, if you know what i mean 
 
4. Do all that gentlemanly stuff but be casual about it, it should look like your not doing anything 
 
5. Confidence, this cannot be faked, girls like this 
 
6. Being tall always helps, but resist the urge to wear platforms 
 
7. Dont worry about having a car, cool stuff, loads of cash, an earring or stuff like that, any chick that cares about that stuff isn't worth your time, ya I said it! 
 
8. If you ask a girl out have a plan, dont say things like, "I don't know, what do you want to do" 
 
9. Be funny, for some reason many females enjoy sarcasm, something like, "What are those boots you have on" "Uggs" "Kinda cool I could see lots of girls starting to where those" 
 
10. Dont go to the movies, what are you going to do there? Exception, the Drive-In 
 
11. Dont get your friends to find you girls, cause they aren't going to pass along any good ones. 
 
12. Every girl wants to be the center of attention, focus on them, ditch the cell phone/texts/etc focus 
		
	
		
		
		
		
		
  
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				Ok heres your step by step guide. 
 
1.Talk to a girls, talk to every girl you get an opportunity to talk to fat, thin, short, tall doesn't matter, practice makes perfect, itll build your confidence see below. 
 
2.If you do get into a conversation with a girl their favorite subject is themselves,  (I absolutely 100% guarantee this, second only to the subject of all the things that are wrong with their friends) ask one question and they will just keep going automatically, if they stop ask another question, just nod your head, scrunch up your eyebrows and say things like "Wow" "Thats amazing" "Really" (avoid talking about yourself, no one cares)  
 
3. Befriend their friends, the friends punch your ticket to ride, if you know what i mean 
 
4. Do all that gentlemanly stuff but be casual about it, it should look like your not doing anything 
 
5. Confidence, this cannot be faked, girls like this 
 
6. Being tall always helps, but resist the urge to wear platforms 
 
7. Dont worry about having a car, cool stuff, loads of cash, an earring or stuff like that, any chick that cares about that stuff isn't worth your time, ya I said it! 
 
8. If you ask a girl out have a plan, dont say things like, "I don't know, what do you want to do" 
 
9. Be funny, for some reason many females enjoy sarcasm, something like, "What are those boots you have on" "Uggs" "Kinda cool I could see lots of girls starting to where those" 
 
10. Dont go to the movies, what are you going to do there? Exception, the Drive-In 
 
11. Dont get your friends to find you girls, cause they aren't going to pass along any good ones. 
 
12. Every girl wants to be the center of attention, focus on them, ditch the cell phone/texts/etc focus 
			
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 I agree with  most of this except the parts where  it mentions that the girl wants to be the center of attention. What I like is when the guy and I have a mutual discussion going on; he talks about himself and I talk about myself, that kind of thing. When he contributes stuff about himself, I feel he's being more personal and giving me information that he wouldn't necessarily give to people he doesn't know well. So... yeah    
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 Hahaha, it's not like I am asking for myself. I realize I have no dating "skills", my tactic is to sit there and try to look pretty so some predator will swoop down and snatch me up. Right now I am mastering the sitting portion of my tactic, but I havent been approached yet. Everyone must have a boyfriend right now.
  
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