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Originally Posted by Geek
They are either going to
a) Purchase BC somewhere else, or
b) Stop using BC, which makes sex LESS safe.
This is in no way going to stop girls from getting "knocked up and then getting abortions."
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I believe this is a false dichotomy...infact, there's no reason why someone might not go "Crap, I don't have any BC, so I better think twice about giving in to my urges tonight."
The way you state a) and b) makes it sound like you believe people are inherently stupid...like they can't make a 'smart' decision about their body and are a slave to their urges.
I'm not saying no one is stupid like that, but to say
everyone, or even more than half of people, is kind of a pessimistic outlook in my opinion. To put it differently, imagine someone is in a bar and they haven't administered the pill. They meet a guy, things get rolling, and then she has a decision to make:
A) Have sex
B) Don't have sex
Assuming everyone will have sex anyway is assuming no one has better sense. I'd like to think most people would choose option B given this situation.
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EDIT: I guess I can go into a bit more detail about my book since I did provide an on-topic post here (and since you asked nicely (: )
The theme of the book is essentially "Put yourself in the other person's shoes." I'm not quite sure if I could write a good fictional novel with this theme (I'm still thinking about a possible plot though), or if I'll just make it like, a mathematical presentation of that theme. The mathematics is real mathematics...but the beauty part is, it's really easy to understand! Most people just haven't been introduced to this style of thinking. (This area of math is called
Mathematical Logic by the way)
The Following is regarding my book...please skip it if you're not interested:
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The Math
Don't be discouraged as it's relatively easy, but necessary to understanding my reasoning. As I alluded above, my philosophy centers around a mathematical object called a
formal system. To introduce some terminology, a formal system is a set of
axioms and a set of
rules of inference together.
1) An axiom is basically going to represent something which is assumed to be true, but not proven. Math itself, and thus science, are full of all sorts of axioms which inhibit our perception of
absolute truth. (I'll get into this later)
2) A rule of inference is basically "if this is true, then this must be true."
These axioms and rules of inference specify every single 'theorem' which can be derived in this system. (However, mathematically it's been shown that there are true statements within that system which cannot be derived or proven, as well as false statements which cannot be proven false).
What does this mean? Let's create a little formal system, for fun.
Our formal system will consist of strings of symbols, it can only include {# , $ , *}, the pound sign, asterisks and dollar signs. Let's start easy, with only one axiom. We will decide that our axiom will be:
AXIOM: *$*#**
For now, we only know that this one string, is a theorem (we've stated that it is by declaring it an axiom). Now we need to specify our rule of inference.
RULE 1: Suppose x is a theorem...then *x* is also a theorem.
(In other words, add asterisks to the beginning and end of any theorem to produce a new theorem.)
This means, since *$*#** is a theorem **$*#*** is also...and then so is ***$*#****, and so forth (there are infact, infinitely many theorems already!).
So what do these strings of symbols
mean? It's just a bunch of stupid symbols! Any formal system requires an
interpretation (very important!) Take a look at the above symbols and try to come up with an interpretation for
each symbol that makes sense to you (there is more than one answer!). (:
Did you think of addition? Sure, that's how and why I designed it that way. (:
Let the number of asterisks appearing in a row represent a number. So * is 1, ** is 2, etc.
Let $ represent +
Let # represent =
Under this interpretation, our axiom is 1 + 1 = 2, and our rule of inference is adding one to the left and right sides of the equation. 2 + 1 = 3, 3 + 1 = 4, and so forth.
We say this formal system is
consistent, because 1 + 1 = 2 is true, and our rule of inference is sound (adding one to both sides of an equation keeps the things equal). We say it is
incomplete however, since we can't derive the statement 1 + 2 = 3, which is a true statement about addition! But we cannot get the string *$**#*** using our axiom and rule of inference! Even though it 'should' be a true statement about addition.
So what if we play around with our interpretation? What if we take this formal system to be
adding one?
Then our system is still consistent for the same reason, and it is complete! Because 1 + 2 = 3 is not a statement regarding adding 1 (Don't be confused about the whole 1 + 2 = 2 + 1 thing. You have to forget what you know about numbers, because remember that we're working with symbols!).
So that shows there are already 2 different interpretations for our formal system (and there are even more!)
One more important note: If I start with the axiom **$*#*, or 2+1=1 under our interpretation, then this is a valid statement! Even though common sense tells us 2 + 1 =\= 1, any hardcore mathematician would deduce 2 + 1 = 1, 3 + 1 = 2, and so forth.
So the formal system in question
does matter. In the original formal system, the statement 2 + 1 = 1 is silly, because we know 2 + 1 = 3 (ie. we can derive **$*#***)! This is precisely why you must 'put yourself' in someone else's formal system to see if their beliefs are valid.
That introduces the math, now I'll move onto the relevant part.
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Relating the Math to People
So now we know what a formal system is, axioms and rules of inference.
I propose that people are themselves (very complicated) formal systems! They have axioms, beliefs which they assume true without proof, and rules of inference which aren't very clear or easy to identify. But for whatever reasons, people can deduce things on their own, albeit not always correctly.
Everyone believes things without proof...that's just how it is! Whether you believe in the supernatural, the natural, the scientific, the mathematical, the philosophical, whatever it is, there's no proof. As I alluded above, if there is such a thing as
absolute truth, then we cannot be reasonably sure of it! All we know is what we see in front of us...but what about a skitsophrenic? They see the world completely differently from a healthy individual, and must rely on another person to relay the information to them. What is
true to this person?
Let's take a rather silly example. Have you ever been driving, and some guy comes up to tail gate you? You probably said "Gah, lookit this jackass, going so fast..." Or perhaps you were the tailgater, who is thinking "Gah, lookit this jackass, take your pedal off the break!"
Both people think the other is an idiot without stopping to think about what they feel. But who is wrong? I didn't tell you what speed they were travelling, or what the speed limit is! What if the speed limit is 45 and they're going 20? Then the guy in front is wrong, but if the speed limit is 45 and they're going 50, then the tailgater is the one being pushy! The important thing to note is,
regardless of who is wrong they both think the other is an idiot.
So what does this mean? What insight do I have to offer?
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People as Formal Systems
In math, it's very easy to adopt a certain set of axioms and rules of inference and 'seeing what is true.' With people this is arguably, much more difficult, particularly because we don't know what rules of inference someone has! So what do we do?
Suppose I got in an argument with someone about this philosophy. They're challenging its validity and asserting that I'm just blowing hot air. So how do I, as an avid believer in said philosophy, go about reacting to the situation?
1) Adopt their axioms - I
try my best (it will never be perfect) to see what their assumptions or predispositions are. Perhaps an easier example to illustrate my point is religion. Does the opposite party explicitly believe in a higher power? Do they explicitly not believe in one? You have to forget what
you believe, and look exclusively at their assumptions. Sometimes you may have to ask questions, like "Is {something} true? Do you think {this thing}?" but there's nothing wrong with asking questions.
2) Use
your Rules of Inference - Since all I know is my own reasoning, I try to deduce their asserted statement in a step by step manner. If I can come to a valid conclusion and see their perspective then that's just awesome...and if not, then you'll at least be able to see a bit more into what 'mistakes' (again from your perspective) they may be making.
3) React Accordingly - If I was very mad at this person for challenging my philosophy, and I could see why they would doubt it, should I be mad? Probably not right? I can try to be civil and convince them, or I can accept that they will never be able to see my perspective (at least I'd have tried my best to see theirs), or naturally, I can see that their view makes sense and possibly even alter my own! If I can't see their perspective or it seems faulty to me, even when using their axioms, then I can continue trying to persuade them and show them the alleged 'error' that I perceive.
The example I'd like to mention in my book (perhaps it'd be a theme in a fictional version of the book) is infidelity. Suppose your spouse cheats on you, but you can use 1-2-3 above to see that if you were in their position, you may have done the same thing.
Though this would not make infidelity ustifiably ok, maybe you could accept that for whatever reason things happened, and you may be able to take some sort of action, such as being more affectionate, or if it's the end of the road, acknowledge that divorce is imminent.
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As for other ideas:
1) Science and Religion: I think it's important to 'cut people down' in this book. Many people cling to their beliefs, and perhaps the most severe occurances of this are the atheist vs religious arguments, and an assumption that what they believe is absolute truth.
Religion is clearly not proven truth (after all, that's the essence of
faith), and science isn't either! (Not to knock either one, I respect both perspectives (: ) Here is a very simple example I'm pulling out of my butt right now to demonstrate even scientists have
axioms...they have
faith in what they do.
Take the model of the atom...the current, most technical one in existence (which I certainly don't know about haha). Do you
believe this is the exact model of the atom? That this model will never be improved upon? Or do you
believe that it will be tossed aside someday and a new model adopted?
Though this is a silly example, it's strangely provocative isn't it? In either case, it is a
belief and one which you have adopted without proof...that's what an axiom is. (: There are a lot more of these than you may think...some rather important ones.
Also note that there is no proof or disproof of a higher power...infact, there are relatively simple proofs that God can neither be disproven nor proven! (I am thinking of putting both of these arguments into my book as well)
2) Not to mention, as someone in Math, I know Math isn't infalliable. Most people seem to think a mathematical proof has no bias, it has no assumptions...but it certainly does! Math is
all about axioms...we have assumed very basic statements to be true, and build up complex proofs from these building blocks.
I wanted to mention something called
Russell's Paradox and how in the early 1900s, everyone though Math was broken. (They have since adopted a new 'formal system' for Math, and the problem went away, but we don't know if in 1000 years or something, a new problem will arise that we've never thought of!) Russell's Paradox is basically a mathematical version of "This statement is false." Math fell apart, and everyone was all nervous, afraid that tried and tested methods such as calculus, and thus science were faulty!
Luckily it was (relatively) easily remedied by changing the building blocks which we assume to be true, and mathematicians didn't have to do too much extra work to 're-prove' theorems and stuff. But if math were to drastically change, we would have to rediscover everything! (Currently, the adopted framework is something called the Zermaelo-Fraenkl Set Theory)
3) There is an argument I like to present to people, to really put things in perspective.
Suppose God is real (as I said, you have to
believe otherwise, without proof). God is all-knowing and all-powerful by definition. So how do we know, God didn't create everything this exact instant, with all of our memories intact?
How do we know for certain that we existed, even half a second ago? You have to
believe otherwise. I'm not saying I believe this is the case (although from here I'm sure you can deduce that I can't be sure of whether or not God exists)...it's just a 'what if' scenario that I think is kinda neat. It's like the whole Descartes "I think therefore I am" thing (he was a mathematician too by the way!)
There are various other topics I'd like to cover, like religion vs religion or science vs science. I'd also like to point that, even though I'm saying a person's beliefs are 'play-things' here, I believe they are important and deserve the utmost of care. I'd like to indicate this in a chapter, saying how I personally feel peoples' axioms are shaped by their gut feelings (you can call them instinct, or divine inspiration, depending on what you believe) and experiences. Each and every person's unique beliefs are important...and you should embrace what it is that you believe.
Anyway, the book's still a work in progress, I've been thinking about this for a year and a half-ish so far...I'm not even 100% sure I'll end up finishing.